Why do you say I love you?

[Anonymous]

Ok ok! Soooo why do men spit out the 3 words so fast. I have never met this man ever! But we have been chatting and what not. He has told me a few times he loves me. I never say it back well because I don’t. But why is he doing it at all? And should I say something?

[OlderAndWiser]

If someone says "I love you" and they have never met you, they are either

1. immature and don't know what love is, or
2. using those words in an attempt to manipulate you.

Many guys think that saying "I love you" is the magic key that opens up the sexual garden with a woman.

[Asker]

Yeah I see it as a major red flag! I don’t know why he is saying it. I gave him the green light already.
He doesn’t have to do all this

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he needs to convince himself that he is not just using you.

[Asker]

Not using me?
Does this means the dude likes me?

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't know if he likes you but he may at least want to have sex with you.

[Asker]

Perfect! I just want the sex lol 😂 I mean he knows this! This is why I am confused on the 3 words. There’s no need

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he just thinks it's expected.

[Adronicus]

Only one woman has ever heard me say those words, my mother.

[FilmGuy93]

It sounds like he says it more casually than most people would. I say "I love you" when I mean it.

[Asker]

I say it pretty casual but not to people who I am sparking a romantic interest with

[Sandeeppingping]

Because I love you jasmine

[Asker]

Lol who’s jasmine

[Sandeeppingping]

I don't know I just thought it'd be funny had I actually guessed the name right😂😂😂you'd have gone full panic mode

[Anonymous]

Because we love fooling over smart girls 😘

[Asker]

Fooling?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes if you believe that those 3 magical words comes from heart than you're idol of fools.

It's just plan to get into your pants... stupid

[Asker]

Why am I stupid?
That’s all I want to get into his plans. I’m not asking why he is telling me moron!!! I’m asking why men do dumb shit like this. Thinking it’s the pathway.
Don’t be disrespectful! Your mother didn’t show you manners.

[Opinion Owner]

C**t please
My d**k size is bigger than your boobs size. 😜

[Asker]

People with big dicks don’t talk about them. But you wouldn’t know big dick energy little guy

[Opinion Owner]

I'm really sorry if my comments hurt you... but don't trust this stupid words I love you. It's designed to trap you. 😘

[Asker]

I’m not hurt by your words. But be more respectful I obviously know he doesn’t love me. It was a question you don’t need to insult anyone to make yourself better

[Anonymous]

Saying it too soon is a red flag.

[Asker]

Literally my same thoughts

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, it reeks of desperation.

[Asker]

Which is weird because he doesn’t need me! He Can surely bag any chick. I am just confused lol like why

[Opinion Owner]

Must be the effect you have on him.

[Asker]

There Noway! Lol 😂 I swear I do the bare minimum. I am completely confused af ahahah