What do I do if I catch my "straight" boyfriend in bed scrolling on Grinder?

[Anonymous]

I went to bed after him and I straight up caught him. He had fallen asleep scrolling Grinder straight up penis shopping. He hasn't touched me in a year this is a very fucked up way to find out he doesn't want me and when confronted about it I'm the bad guy. I'm raising our 4 year old by myself at this point. How do I tell him I know and I don't appreciate being lied to and I think I need a nanny cam cause I don't know if he's "hosting" around my kid while I'm forced to work. I have pics and videos for proof to show all of called a liar again.

[SueShe]

Whatever this G*****r is, I presume it is a pornographic site and that he has been looking at deviant content on it.

Being in a relationship and watching this kind of visuals is clearly what can be called emotional cheating. That is the first step towards physical cheating and should never be tolerated, just like body manipulations while being in a relationship should not be tolerated either.

I believe that he needs counseling and you should attend that counseling as well so as not to give him a chance to twist facts to his advantage.

I would prepare a list of issues you think he has a try to bring a solution you think he can live with next to each item. Ask him to do a similar and independent list from yours and also to bring a solution. Next, you sit together and go over both lists trying to find a consensus. Good luck.

[HelpfulWoman]

grindr is gay tinder

[SueShe]

@helpfulwoman thanks. All I need to know now is what T****r is but think I have an idea 🤨

[Jakefromstatefarm6]

Dating app that's usually for hooking up, so grindr is a hook up app for gay people

[SueShe]

@Jakefromstatefarm6 Thanks, I got it now.

[Anonymous]

Haha, the trolling is bad when founding_daddy is calling you one. He's on his tenth account and has been one of the worst trolls infesting this site for years.

[Finchie40]

It’s time for you to walk the other way , he is clearly cheating on you and he doesn’t love you anymore , he just likes the convenience of you. You are only hurting yourself by thinking he actually loves and values you. He is stringing you along for his own selfish benefit , the second he meets someone new he will play a victim and act like you are the reason he chose someone else over you. You are best to leave him

[slatyb]

Accept that he's not straight. If he won't any it, then he's being seriously dishonest and you have to end the relationship. If you don't want to date a bisexual man, then you should leave.

[slatyb]

"He hasn't touched me in a year" -- why are you still with him?

[AI Opinion]

Yikes, this sounds like a tangled web! Here's the deal: honesty and openness are vital. Approach him calmly about what you saw and how it made you feel. Let's face it, trust and communication are everything in a relationship, and this is a massive trust-buster! It's also understandable to be worried about the environment around your child. Finding a balance between confrontation and understanding is key, but remember to prioritize your and your child's well-being. Stay strong, and be ready for a face-off with some hard truths. You got this! 💪❤️

[HelpfulWoman]

break up with him. why he on ANY dating app is instant end it.
you focused on if he's potentially bi/gay is weird.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

RAOFLMFAO. 🤣🤣🤣

[Nikki1989]

Newsflash: He is not as straight as you think.

[beefcakebradybatson]

You and he must talk about his "Grinder" gazing, and if he persists, you should dump the dude.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s sad. Breakup with him.

[Founding_Daddy]

*hands you troll award*

now go away

[In_Trance]

it means you're a fool to think he's straight