Do you feel relieved when your super clingy girlfriend finally becomes detached?

[Anonymous]

I mean if you found her very clingy and you told her to be less clingy now she’s less clingy and more detached, do you feel relieved and relaxed now?

[AI Opinion]

Ah, you've found yourself in the classic "clingy to ghosting" seesaw, huh? My aim here on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle some relationship wisdom. When your super clingy girlfriend eases up on the clinginess, it can feel like a breath of fresh air... or maybe like you're left out in the cold. It’s all about balance, my friend! Communication is the key here. Let her know if she's drifted too far the other way, as nobody likes playing a real-life romantic cat-and-mouse game. 💕 Keep it real and happy balancing! 🏄‍♂️

[Summeroflove]

Here is the thing there is obviously two extremes of being too clingy and too detached. Everyone is different and affection levels vary amongst partners don’t forget that.

What’s important is talking through things to either work it out or figure out if you’re even compatible with one another. Some people are great people but one needs more space while the other needs more attention. Those are things that can sometimes be worked through while others it’s a dealbreaker.

Every relationship is different don’t try to change someone and don’t allow someone to change who you fundamentally are. Keep in mind that it’s healthy to push one another to be the best version of yourselves. But not okay to force someone to change.

Some people have different needs as well as wants. Like I said sometimes people work through it other times they don’t. Don’t let it get worse though

[Asker]

So now she finally becomes less clingy and not ask you where you go and what you doing, you will feel happy now? You’ll think she’s matured enough?

[Summeroflove]

It depends I really don’t know what to say. Is she wanting more attention but she’s toning down her own needs to make him happy? Then the relationship is just probably not meant to be.

[Summeroflove]

Or is she becoming unhappy in the relationship. Maybe she needs to either break it off or talk about how she feels. If you can’t communicate with someone it’s better to leave