My fiancee hides things that aren't even a big deal. Like he started a new course , changed job title joined gym. I find out by chance. is this weird?

[forrealness]

Together 5 years. Also lies a lot even about small things. Lies to please people especially his mother. Is lying and secrecy something that can be worked on?

[Anonymous]

If you're the type to start drama with him over simple stuff, he'll hide simple stuff from you. Because he's too weak to leave the relationship.

If that really isn't the case, then this is the first I've ever heard of something like this, and he should probably seek therapy

[noohair]

Everyone lives 3 lives. A public life, a private life and a secret life. And 5 years and you are not married? When is the wedding goint to be?

[RageBabe]

Imagine the important things he has been keeping from you if he conceals the unimportant ones.

[Alwayreckles93]

That's weird yes he should keep up dates with you. I hope HOA not momma's boy if he is run.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, it sounds like your fiancé might be giving some red flags a run for their money. When someone hides things, it can often boil down to trust and communication issues. Relationships thrive on openness and honesty, and like any good gym membership, it requires consistent work. Yes, lying and secrecy can be worked on, much like a shy muscle at the gym, but it needs a willingness to improve from both sides. Sit him down, have a heart-to-heart, and see if he's ready to change his workout routine! 🏋️‍♂️❤️

[Anonymous]

not telling you about something is not exactly lying

[Opinion Owner]

at least thats not the definition

[Nikki1989]

Sadly, most men lie constantly.