Why do women fall out of love way more quickly than men do?

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she'll be married for 25 years, then out of the blues she's walks out the door. By a week later, she's has a new lover.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think many things attribute to women falling out of love but as the saying goes, once something good is gone don't expect something better or for it to come back. I am not referring the better thing being the woman who wants to end things quickly. Feminism, social media, movies, books, stupid female friends all contribute to a woman making stupid choices.

Now, I know if a female reads this the first thing that pops up in their mind is I'm an idiot, I'm a male chauvinistic pig that wants to oppress women and women can't/shouldn't think for themselves and be miserable. Here's what I don't get about modern day women. They care more for validation from social media, from strangers, from work where everyone is replaceable as they get older with prettier, younger, smarter women entering a job force.

Feminism considers marriage, having children to be evil. It's one thing for a woman or girl to end things in a toxic marriage or relationship which I can understand. But if the guy is trying to be loving, caring, helping the kids, planning trips, doing house chores what more does she want? There are women nowadays who don't even want to be touched by her man and says, "Im not in the mood". I know I may argue on here to vent about being single but damn, sometimes being single and avoiding all this stress and drama that women bring makes single life as a guy better on those lonely days.

I've cut off and lost respect for a lot of girls throughout my life. Women want ultimate happiness because it seems like they are never satisfied, men/guys want peace thats basically summing up a relationships between males and females... Females want the constant pursuit of happiness at any cost, men/guys want peace... Peace is easier to obtain with the right life choices and right morals versus the constant pursuit of happiness. There's a reason why 80+% of women file for divorce. As a guy, I'm left wondering, even if I give it all and my very best, will she truly be faithful. Women complain about faithfulness/loyalty, there's a lot of shady women and girls out there and the media industry has distorted the minds of many girls and women that's the cold hard truth.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because most women are selfish and only think about what is best for herself , women usually have way more options to choose from compared to most of us males , So when things aren’t perfect in her marriage or relationship she latches onto either someone else , or chooses to stay single until she meets some one else. most females’ do not commit like a male commits in a relationship because she has a lot of options to choose from. and she just thinks about what is best for herself. It happens more than you think it does. Most females’ are drawn to status and money , if you don’t have status or a nice amount of money , she will be open to someone that does. My advice to you is to find yourself a good moral female that is submissive to you , Submissive girls’ treat a man way better than a not so submissive girl that has a dominate side to herself. That tries to take lead and control over the relationship, Dodge those types as much as possible. A good moral submissive girl won’t hesitate to keep you satisfied in bed and treat you will love and respect outside the bedroom as well

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not true. She fell out of love years before she walked out. And she might have had the new lover for years too.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

Because men are ok with staying in a relationship that they are not happy with.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach, I'm here to help unravel these mysteries! 😎 Love isn't just about longevity; it's about connection and fulfillment. Women might appear to fall out of love quickly if they’ve emotionally disconnected over time. That new love seems fast but could've been brewing as an unmet need. People have unique timelines, and sometimes it’s all about finding that spark we've been missing. Sparks can be surprising, can't they? 💕🔥

blueonblack22 · Answer

Because of evolutionary purposes female brains are hard wired to be a lot more selfish then male brains.

They date and marry because they need men (money, affirmation, support, protection, status etc.). Men date and marry not because they want woman to survive but it because they WANT women. It’s a different judgment for us.

There was a time in history this made more sense. A woman mate selection could make or break her entire livilihood and the livilihood of her children. Even impact her very survival.

But in modern society women no longer need men to provide and protect them. Yet (most) women have not evolved out this selfishness. It’s deeply embedded in them subconsciously. Most of them don’t even realize it and if they do they try to deny it. And you can’t defy thousands of years of evolution with 50 years of feminism and “gender equality”.

by the way - I am very sorry about what you are going through. Seriously I am man. I know that’s has to be absolutely devastating after being married that long.

I don’t know the whole story or how it went down. But do whatever you need to do to mourn and recover your loss. Get therapy. Get support. Whatever you can. You are actually in a very vulnerable part of the population when it comes to suicide risk. Don’t hole up on this.

12karen · Answer

it's not out of blue, she may gave off hints first, and women, not all but, women don't fall out of love quickly, she may have told you things or the communication is missing between the two of you but for sure, she thought about it for a long while, years and months, somethings is off and she must have communicate it but no results, no efforts. She made up excuse for herself to still be with you even if she felt like she couldn't, kinda why aa lot of women stay in a toxic relationship (not that your relationship was toxic) just to say she will make up excuse to accept and stay, until she can take it anymore...

you both had 25 years to communicate and resolve problems, works on the relationship and it failed, so obviously she decided to end it, it's never sudden. It just sudden for you because you never thought about the possibility of her leaving, marriage or not, you can leave anytime and she can leave anytime and most of the married couples think once married they are trapped together forever no matter what happens but it's not the case unfortunately, she is not happy and may have hinted it in the past.

But I am not blaming you, she also may be bad at communication, instead of hinting what's wrong, she should have communicated and worked on herself too to adjust to the situation.

To cap it all, it was never sudden... but the moment she decided to stop, it's where she can't take it anymore and she wouldn't do more

IslaTheWitch · Answer

she probably was out of love some time already... but for the sake of the relationship, kids, whatever... decided to stay until some moment...

dragoblack · Answer

Because most relationships in the usa are about what a man can provide. When a man can't provide anymore or shows her he's a person below the masking, she loses interests. Guys will put up with a lot of bullshite and abuse, trying to make the relationship work, making them last longer, but even guys have their limits. Women go based on emotions & convenience, she has as much ability to tell guys "no" as much as a guy does, but will jump at a guy making he feel good in the moment rather than thinking of trying to make the relationship persist and working through issues in the relationship.

naartjie · Answer

Women give men many opportunities to do things better, to fix things and it’s blatantly obvious but men often don’t and they don’t see why they have to until it’s too late.
Men typically will leave sooner than a woman.
Women will stay and go through so much and then one day leave and then it’s “how could she move on so fast” buddy you had a long time to do something but didn’t

HungTexan · Answer

I don’t really agree that women fall out of love more quickly. It may often appear that way, but usually they’ve been trying to make the relationship work for years, but it’s a totally one-sided effort. When she finally gives up the guy is clueless, just like he’s always been, and thinks it was a snap decision. He doesn’t realize he was the problem all along.

mot to say it doesn’t happen that women fall out of love quickly sometimes, but so do men. Don’t generalize.

roninzos · Answer

Courtesy of social media, women are besieged with 50 options daily. They can now go through life with every day being at Walmart. They can have their pick of dozens at any moment. Like Walmart though, very very few they'll have to pick from will be any quality, because quality guys don't spend hours daily on social media sites randomly typing to women. My brother graduated West Point. He's married to a woman he met at his first AD station in the DMZ. She's South Korean.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I'm assuming it very often isn't just out of the blue.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Men are more willing to live in a horrible relationship as long as he is still getting sex..

magiusX26 · Answer

simply put. because the female brain is wired more on emotion and since love is an emotion and all emotions are fleeting, they therefore fall out quicker.

Nikki1989 · Answer

This very rarely happens, regardless of how many axes you have to grind on here.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Real love is a commitment. To "fall" in or out of love is, to me, emotional. If it is based upon emotion, it will fade when the emotions fade.

genericname85 · Answer

cause women are more neurotic. that's not manosphere bullshit. that's a fact.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

because during those 25 years she most likely never liked you. she was just with you for financial security

foxsquirrell · Answer

But 25 years is not a short time to fall out of love?

blackeagle007 · Answer

Yea women are very inconsiderate of others. And society is ok with that. Total bullshit

Ifdyourmom · Answer

Are you asking why people cheat? I don't know, ask Trump

GlowUpGirly5 · Answer

Because you probably weren't treating her right

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