Who falls out of love more? Men or women?

[ManOnFire]

Who do you think falls out of love more, men or women?

Men

Women

[blueonblack22]

Men are more easily visually stimulated hence prone to making bad decisions. But once I truly have real feelings for a woman and I know it’s not just a fantasy then a part of me feels a sense of loyalty that transcends what I can get out of the relationship. That means I can even accept her having a future without me if we both know that’s what’s best for her. I don’t “fall out” of that feeling very easily. Hence I am very selective about who I truly fall in love with vs who I don’t.

But as for women. They often confuse “love” with a feel good emotion they have for their crush. But they also (subconsciously) look for men they can depend on to provide and protect them.

If they perceive a man is incapable of this (perceive doesn’t always mean it’s always true) they will fall out of love fast. The initial “crush” will vaporize very quickly if they discover the man doesn’t match up to the “expectations” they had of him.

There are evolutionary reasons why women do this and most aren’t even aware of it.

[ManOnFire]

Absolutely correct.

[SolitarySolace]

Statistically and anecdotally, women tend to fall out of love more than men do. Women initiate the majority of divorces and breakups, often because they feel emotionally unfulfilled or lose attraction over time. Men, on the other hand, tend to stay in relationships longer, even if they’re unhappy, because they value stability and commitment differently. Society also encourages women to ‘upgrade’ their relationships, while men are often more sentimental about their past relationships.
- Eva ❤️

[PeachyPie93]

I think it's pretty even to be fair.. Men just don't divorce since they don't want to lose their kids and half their shit. So they either cheat behind their wives back or they kill them..

[ManOnFire]

Do you know why women divorce men more than vice versa?

[PeachyPie93]

Because most woman men chose to marry are just useless greedy whores? lol Or because men only lose and don't gain from divorcing.

[ManOnFire]

Close. A lot of women divorce more because they already knew the guys weren't great even in the early stages of dating, but they thought they could change or fix him, or were waiting for him to change and it never happened. Women’s need to manipulate men or shape them into what they want gets them in trouble all the time.

And then the other ones were greedy whores, yeah lol

[PeachyPie93]

LOL that is why I don't bother dating it's a waste of time.

[ManOnFire]

Nope. It's not. Just don't think you need to try to fix them and you're good🙂

[PeachyPie93]

All men need to be fixed.. lol

[ManOnFire]

Nah. Women just have a god complex.

[PeachyPie93]

LOL I am only kidding..

[Simslover92]

Bruce Springsteen wrote a whole song about it. Men ftw.

[ManOnFire]

What was the song?

[Simslover92]

Hungry heart

[ManOnFire]

Oh yeah I've heard this song before. Still think women fall out of love much more. They wouldn't divorce so much if they didn't.

[fish5505_87]

Love that song!

[Simslover92]

Me too!

[Finchie40]

I’d say women , mainly because statistics show women file for divorce more than men do

[Vegasrunner]

That's a tough one. I would say maybe women only because they are presented w/ more situations than men.

[ManOnFire]

Women love conditionally and see most men as expendable, so you are correct.

[NicholasRedone]

Women crave emotion ; and most men only crave - 🤭

[red324]

Women. They don't even fall Iove to begin with

[MikeTheBartender]

Men fall harder. Who falls more? I think still men.

[ManOnFire]

Why do you think so?

[MikeTheBartender]

Personal experience with friends, family, and bar patrons. And unfortunately suicide rates.

[MikeTheBartender]

And I totally apologize... I read the damn question wrong! Women definitely fall out of love easier. Because idiots like me that move to fast in things 😂

[ManOnFire]

@MikeTheBartender I was thinking you must've meant that when you mentioned the suicide rates lol

[Anonymous]

In marriages it's obviously women considering they initiate 80% of divorces.

[lucy901]

Women fall in love with men but they wait to your action as a man to approach them

[LiamJHayden]

I've never "fallen in love" thus never have fallen out of love.

[ManOnFire]

Why have you never fallen in love?

[DepthsofMe]

I have no clue. I haven't done any kind of research on that. But I know that I dont fall out of love very easily.

[Anonymous]

Men of course