Do you think it is men or women who fall harder in love?

[foxsquirrell]

Men

Women

[Zack-Bann]

I think both fall hard in love but men fall out of love a lot harder


A woman could telling you she’s so happy she could die in your arms one night and within a week she’ll feel nothing for you and eventually have these feelings for someone else


But a man who truly falls in love carries a scar for a long time


He won’t be good to go in a week


He might sleep with other women after his breakup but it will not be love until he’s shaken off the old one which can take a long long time

[Summeroflove]

This one’s hard is really depends on the person some people genuinely can’t love and some people only love in unhealthy ways.

I would say…. It comes down to the individual.

[foxsquirrell]

Sure, but on average I am asking.

[Summeroflove]

Average it’s hard to say. I think it’s pretty 50/50

[Simslover92]

Initially, I feel it's women who fall harder but men fall harder in the end because they are the ones deciding to propose to the woman (usually).

[ShellyB]

I have seen both but, I think mostly men. JMO!

[foxsquirrell]

I tend to agree.

[Anonymous]

Men, without question!

Men fall in love the hardest because a man's love is generally the most genuine. Women conversely only seem like they fall in love hard because they fall in love the MOST and are the most VOCAL about it. Most women are actually never in love with most the men they date. Most women are just addicted the FEELING of falling in love. So most women are actually only ever experiencing limmerance with the guy they date. And as soon as that limmerance wears off they can't stand him anymore and they're ready to move on to someone else.

[Anonymous]

Well, it's not men that are initiating divorce because they crave the excitement of something new.

Barring some outliers, men marry for the long haul, for love. Women marry for status, and finances. When they get bored, or think they can trade up, they're gone.

Men love unconditionally. Women love transactionally.

[foxsquirrell]

It is sad but I think you are right. I just can't believe that I live in such a world.

[Kayla45]

I think guys tend to fall for a girl they really like, most of the time they are the ones making the first move. So in that respect I think men are typically.

[TonyMetal___86]

These days men are falling harder in love unlike women

[bysinner]

If a man loves, he changes the world. If a woman falls in love, she gives birth to a baby.

[oaknova]

its men because of their nature