Do guys even actually like small breasts or are they lying to us to not hurt our feelings?

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I’m talking about small like tiny mosquito bites not just small full breasts.. I’ve had small breasts my whole life I’m almost 21 and I’ve been insecure but my boyfriend tells me he loves them but I can’t help to just feel like he’s lying because what guy doesn’t love big boobs - I’ve been trying to love them for years but I’m really thinking about getting surgery

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

There are all kinds of guys, just like their are all kinds of breasts. And there are all kinds of tastes for types of breasts.

Get over your insecurity about your breasts. Did you choose them? Nope. They were given to you. And weight gain and child bearing affect the size of breasts. You have no idea what they'll look like when you're 30.

And if they never change size, think of this, small breasts stay looking good until you're 80. Those giant hooters sag and drag and look like bowling balls in a sack once those women are past 35. They're too big to keep looking great.

If you continue on this vein and want to, you can always have plastic surgery to make them larger. I don't recommend spending such a large amount of money unless it's to REPAIR a deformity.

Small breasts provide enough milk for infants and do not get in the way like big ones when playing sports or running. I think they're preferable. Not so showy, but far more reasonable. Love your body because it's yours and your lover appreciates it as it is.

Treat it well and it'll be useful to you for decades. Breasts only perform to feed infants and for decoration. Love yourself and give up on this "all men." All men do NOT love big boobs. Most men love the WOMAN first and whatever they have secondarily. Why? Because it's the PERSON that matters. Not their attachments.

laraWM · Accepted Answer

Yes of course some do. But to be honest you shouldn't care about what guys like or not, you need to learn to be comfortable with them. I had trouble liking my boobs too when younger

BullShark · Accepted Answer

Definitely.

A lot of guys do actually love small breasts, so if your boyfriend's telling you he loves them, believe him! It's the same thing I'd tell guys who would ask something like "do girls even actually like small d*cks or are they lying to us" (even though the number of girls who like/prefer smaller penises is wayyy lesser than guys who like/prefer small boobs, but I digress).

If you're attracted to someone overall, and love them dearly, trust me, things like the size of your breasts/penis DOES NOT matter, and your partner wouldn't care. They'd be even more attracted to you based on your confidence and how much you love your body and know how to use what you've got instead, and how you make them feel.

Like if I'm in love with a girl, we both know each other for years now, and just seeing them and thinking about them is enough to make my heart race and make me feel butterflies all over, the size of their breasts is the last thing I'd care about, and whether small or big, I'd find them attractive regardless and make them feel loved no matter what.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I don't lie about my preferences. I say things as they are. I don't like overweight or fat girls. I don't like girls that use a lot of makeup. I don't like girls that are materialistic. I don't care who's offended by it. They're MY preferences.

So when I say that boobs size does not matter, I genuinely mean it. I actually find that girls with smaller boobs to be generally more attractive because they usually have a slim and fit figure, whereas overweight or obese girls tend to have much larger boobs proportionate to their weight.

Once in a blue moon, you'll see a slim and fit girl with larger boobs. I do admit it looks good, but it's not a HUGE bonus. What matters more when it comes to boobs aesthetic is how perky they are. If you have large boobs and they sag, it's not attractive.

Honestly though, I care more about ass than boobs. And that's something a girl can work on.

So to summarize everything, boobs size does not matter. How perky they are does a little. But overall fitness trumps all.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, love, my aim here is to help you embrace yourself with all the confidence and flair you deserve. Many guys genuinely love small breasts, and your boyfriend sounds like one of them! It's not just about size for most; it's about the whole wonderful package, which includes your beautiful personality and energy.

Trust me, the real magic lies in how you carry yourself with confidence. Surgery should be your choice alone, not based on the assumptions of others. Perks of being uniquely fabulous come in all sizes! Embrace your style, and that light inside you will shine ✨!

ohsheeT · Answer

. Be not.. he's not lying to you at all there's something about a girl with small breasts this is just absolutely beautiful and it's because she's real and when she's confident and she's strong and she has small breasts she can rule the world let me tell you don't go get surgery if he gets surgery it's going to throw your whole body off and you're going to look fake don't do that you're perfect I'm telling you you are perfect you have to find that confidence with inside of you once you find that confidence watch and see what happens actually love your breast there's nothing wrong with your breasts they're perfect I'm telling you I don't even know what else to say except for do not get surgery be real be confident be a leader be a role model and love yourself

Finchie40 · Answer

Some guys’ do everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like , so just rock who you are as a person and eventually you will meet someone that accepts you for you , Never change yourself to appease anyone , if a guy doesn’t want to date you because you have small breasts , then that’s his loss, not yours. Why be with someone that can’t accept you for who you are to begin with? You would be wasting your time

AviatorTom · Answer

More important than size is nipple sensitivity. And even more important than that, there is much more, physically and emotionally, to a woman than the size of her breasts.

I've been with women with all different sizes of breasts. Never once did I think about the size of her breasts.

Apple1996 · Answer

Most guys prefer small boobs. I have big boobs. It's rare to find men who are actually into them

WhiteSteve · Answer

Dead ass, I was JUST talking about this yesterday with a friend, and we were saying small breasts were tragically underrated.

I don’t want to get into knocking different sizes and shapes of buhbbies, haha, I don’t know what everyone here reading is working with and don’t want to send any ricochet shots, but I’ll just say “big =/= nicer looking”….

Well, before your time, but there used to be an old sitcom called “Married…With Children.” The dad was a guy named Al Bundy, he was supposed to be this former high school football hero who’s now a miserable overworked, underpaid guy in a dead end job, and he’s kind of frenemies with his wife and kids, haha.

He was also supposed to embody the quintessential American man, and he liked watching sports and drinking beer on his couch, and going to strip clubs, haha, and reading adult magazines with nude women. The joke-title of his favorite magazine was called “Big ‘Uns”😂

So…we don’t NOT like bigger breasts. BUT…. I always remembered an episode where he had a full array of magazines he was excited about, and the joke was that he had them all: “Big ‘Uns, Little ‘Uns, and In Between ‘Uns”😝 The point being, some guys may have preferences, but at the end of the day, guys just love tits, of all sizes, and were usually just thrilled to be there. I’ve been around the block enough times in my younger years to have experienced them all, and I can really and truly say I have no preference. I can work with whatever’s there and appreciate them for what they are. Like you still have nipples, right? Then we’re good, lmao.

Don't stress on it, believe your boyfriend. I do👍

NathanDavis · Answer

one of my exes had small breasts... another of them, had fuller D's

I loved them both, and I loved them all... they're obviously very different, but still... there's a whole lot more boobs than size, and of course there's an entire person with those boobs, who YOU LOVE

I'm sure most guys are the same... boobs are boobs, whoever is obsessed with a particular size, or is very picky with either size, they are just not going to be with you if they prefer them big... period

one thing I am for sure sure... I do not like fake boobs

AManOnTheWeb · Answer

I would  MUCH  rather date a woman with small (even tiny) natural breasts than a woman who had surgical augmentation. If you've had a mastectomy or something, that's kind of a different story and it makes sense to want to even things out after having a lump removed or something like that. At the end of the day, it's your body so you should do what you want, but before making any decisions about modifying yourself, ask yourself if you'd still want to do it if you lived in a culture where tiny breasts were considered the most attractive? In other words, are you REALLY doing this for yourself, or to try to fit into some cultural beauty ideal that dickheads dream up to sell you stuff? Because I would discourage you from doing so if it's the latter. My guess is your boyfriend is right and your breasts are gorgeous exactly how they are right now.

hahahmm · Answer

To me this is the flip side of the question: do men like all large breasts. No men don't like all large breasts as it depends on who owns the breasts and how they look/act. A guy could be into you for a lot of reasons. You not having (much) chest means you have one less easy way to attract random strangers. But if you're smart you have/build that A+ personality that guys like (don't listen to feminists telling you that life is all about ignoring what dudes like) and you would easily still be able to find guys who are into you.

Another way of looking at it is if a woman is a cake.. breasts are icing. Some women have amazing icing. But nobody is into that cake just for the icing. Nah, there's always more going on. Unless we're just window shopping.

adventurous-1 · Answer

everyone has a preference, that what's makes us all different! So yes there are guys and girls that like or prefer small petite breast. We all have something we don't like about ourselves but to others it may not be that big of a deal. We put more into our self criticizing that the world generally does and that's just we as humans operate. Think long and hard, then research all the different comments and experiences people have had before doing something to your body that may not yield the results you expect and is not without risk. speaking with a therapist may help with the inadequate feelings and give you a better perspective. I'm just saying look before you leap.

Nik1hil · Answer

I mean Considering their are Straight Men Jacking off to FEMBOY with FlatChest and a Fairy Dick!..

With that In perspective, You have a Female Body and. Female pussy And Uterus, and You bleed like a Women!..

And Girls with small or No breasts which I have seen in porns and I Confess that I have Cummed to Those Girls too..

A flat chest Girl 🤣 Never Stopped me From getting arousal!..

Besides Flat chest Girl means , She is probably Thin and has a Sexy Thigh Gap!. 🤤

Besides most of the Girls I crushed on were Flat Chested!..

Best part about flat chested girls is you can play Sports with them or go Jogging or dancing, and they don't need a BRA.

Eventually all Girls Gain Boobs , Once they have Kids, Mammary Glands Develop, for the baby Milk.

So Please Can you Like Not Mess up the Perfection That God has created..

Valdemort · Answer

When it comes to our bodies, I think men are pretty simple... from what I've learned, men are just happy to see a woman's body, regardless of shapes and sizes. More importantly though -  you  should be satisfied with yours, you'll be fine!

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Men do actually like small ones, I have big boobs and guys usually don't prefer them. They might like them for a bit because its like the wow factor but they usually have a preference for smaller.

Anonymous · Answer

Let me just say this. If he didn’t like you the way you are he’d be w someone else. You need to find security in yourself as far as being comfortable w your body. Not everyone like a certain cup of tea, some like green, some like black, etc, etc. As far as I’m concerted your man likes the tea you serve. I’m not too big on boobs, I prefer a girl w a nice backside if I had to choose. Men love women of all sorts of shapes, colors, etc. in my opinion if men didn’t like women w small breast overtime they’d be phased out genetically because men wouldn’t procreate w them.

altaboy · Answer

Don't get surgery! A lot of guys don't like fake boobs. It is my feeling that most guys aren't going to be too picky about your breast size and many will be thrilled with you the way you are now. Personally, I have always had a strong preference for small boobs.

I think part of the attraction, for me, is that big ones hold no mystery, but small ones always make me wonder. What are they really like? I am happy no matter how small they are! The other part of my attraction to small boobs is their staying power. They're going to be nice for you even as you age.

Paige90 · Answer

I wear a 34C bra but if mine were as small as you say I would probably elect to have implants put in. I am usually more pro natural but I can understand why you are considering implants. My only advice is not to get them too big. Maybe a B or C cup?

Kelley1 · Answer

The waist-to-hip ratio is a dozen times more important to men than breast size. Biologically, a small waist-to-hip ratio (Ideal 0.7) is what men notice because it is a sign of fertility. Small hips equal low fertility. Perky is better than big.

McLlovin · Answer

The media has trained you into think guys like big breast only. Thats a lie. You better love yourself, because theirs someone out there for everyone.

i think of life like a big lego game. People who dont like you, you just dont fit together well, and the ones that like you are ment to be good fits. Why waste mental energy on people that dislike you when the people who like you are waiting for you.

LonelyHsoul · Answer

Don't get surgery because you are doing it for the wrong reasons, plus having small boobs has its perks, they arnt weighing heavy on you, guy won't be perving at your cleavage while you are out.

I'll be honest, guys like womens small breast as much as women like mens small penis's

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

I like smaller boobs for many reasons. They are generally perky, and project a message of fun and happy. They tend to age better over time, and in my experience they seem give more sensation and pleasure to the girl.

With your boyfriend, It should be obvious, that if he says he loves them, does he physically show it? Does he give them a lot of attention, or does he just give verbal assurances? There probably lies your answer.

jshm2 · Answer

Yeah, the "flat chest" is something that makes men question if you are trans or not. Some are "into" that sort of thing though.

But eat more phytoestrogen foods, to increase breast growth. Will save you on breast surgery too.

RiseofArtemis · Answer

As a man I will tell you as it is, boobs are boobs, doesn't mater if small or big, they just need to fit your body and look good. Men like boobs in any shape. Of course most will say bigger boobs are better but those guys usualy never get girls anyway.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

of course they are lying to not hurt feelings. but hey if your boyfriend is with you then obviously you have other things that make up for you smallness. so no need for surgeries and if you still want it then get it for yourself and not to please others.

but do remember that there are risk involved

Jennz6 · Answer

My breast were like @Abbycado described, very small but bc I’m a Topless Dancer 💃 I was told to get breast implants to impress the customers. After I had my surgery, many people said that my boobs were sexier before when I had small breast. I think guys like smaller breast sizes better than big ones

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

“what guy doesn’t love big boobs”
Your boyfriend.
Look, believe him. Can he puck you up? Does he turn you on and satisfy you?
If you see yourself mothering his kids with you someday than you gotta stop the insecurity, its going to affect everything about your relationship and end it.

Are you sure its not you thinking about other guys? Because he’s with you and says he likes you, thats it.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I'm only speaking for my 30 going on 31 years old self here and about my change in preferences specifically since my mid to late 20s - I for one realised the type of woman I wanted was slim, caucasian, pale, short, and with at least E cups natural tits. Honeydew melon 🍈🍈 or moon 🌕🌕 equivalent 😋
Yet I'm no fan of implants or whatever is fake.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Not all men like the same thing. Just like women, or people in general, we have different views of what is attractive. I can say definitively that many men like small boobs, avg sized boobs, big boobs, or just love em in general no matter what. I know it’s probably hard not to feel what you’re feeling, but try not to worry too much. Plenty of men are going to like you regardless of the size of your boobs.

Unit1 · Answer

Do guys even actually like small breasts or are they lying to us to not hurt our feelings?

Figures. 1 time in years it's a female equivalent of "penis size" question but with titties.

A woman is so much more than just titties.

What if you were told guys like small titties too? You would probably deny it and succumb more in that matter.

By all means, get tits enlargement surgery if that's what you want.

Shiprex · Answer

Yeah of course they do.
Girls I've been with have ranged from A to G in cup size and they were all delightful and enjoyable. Thing is the sensitivity of the breasts is what is a turn on for me. Not the size.

Same with the size of the woman to be honest. Women who are larger than I am and smaller too are just as nice to be with and get to know.

zagor · Answer

Yes many guys like small breasts. Don't be so insecure about it and DON'T get implants. If you do realize you are doing it for YOUR insecurities, because most guys prefer natural, big or small.

I dated a girl who was so flat I had to check under the sheets to make sure I wasn't with a 12 year old boy.

BaronVonBarron · Answer

According to studies majority of men prefer bigger breasts, however not the biggest. Most voted for D. Personally I like A and B, and this is 100% honest. Your guy is probably honest too, he would not be with you if he did not like your body.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Well I think smaller breasts look a lot better than these hangers. 😫😣😖

aromatic_xo · Answer

They do, obviously they wish for perkyess tits but seriously guys literally like anything that has a hole. Saggy, anything that’s invited to them. It’s a fact sis.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Some people do. But I have small boobs too and noticed that some guys who say they like small boobs don't necessarily care that much about boobs to begin with and are more of an ass guy type

Anonymous · Answer

I know a lot of women have a hard time believing it, but most guys do not prefer big boobs, and many prefer small ones. I like fit women, and fit women rarely have big boobs. I love small and medium most. As long as a woman gets sexual pleasure from me paying attention to her boobs and nipples, that's all I care about.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Some guys really do love small mosquito bumps. Or he might love you regardless of what your breasts are. Talk to your boyfriend before you get surgery.

Levin · Answer

Slim figure and small breasts is an ideal. But really, I don't care whether her breasts are big or small. Main thing is she is in shape and health conscious.

LiamS95 · Answer

I actually prefer dmsll breasts to huge big ones they never get saggy, are definitely more sensitive especially worn I run my tongue around the sreolas and nipples and suck and kiss those perky nipples

Falcon265 · Answer

Ok so it’s your choice to get surgery but in all honesty smaller boobs are super sexy I like them because they a perkier and to me a person of age with smaller boobs looks a million times better than a person with bigger sizes. Now that is a preference and not everybody shares that opinion. I want to say again it is your body your choice but there are guys out there who prefer small

slickrick6600 · Answer

I actually really like small boobs, biggers boobs aren’t as attractive to me. I would say I am most attracted to and would hope for smaller boobs in my ideal person honestly

avery58 · Answer

Men just love variety. I think most of them like all types of breast sizes etc

Anonymous · Answer

100%  LOVE THEM . No they are NOT lying. Some guys definitely LOVE tiny, even REALLY tiny boobs. They are so CUTE! and sexy. A lot of guys love that. Don't get surgery! I'm sure they are perfect just the way they are!

chrissykerdock · Answer

you can always make up for it by doing something else basically want their attention

HighValue · Answer

I like them, but I also only like women that have an attractive face without needing to use makeup to hide their many flaws because if they need makeup, they are unattractive.

glennos89 · Answer

I don't care how big a girls boobies are.  Honestly if I had to choose I would rather have a girl with small natural boobs then a girl with fake boobs💯

elTAHAwy · Answer

I think what guys like more is the girl reaction when a guy suck them if a guy suck a woman small boobs and feels she get horny is better than a guy suck a huge boobs but the girl doesn't get horny

genericname85 · Answer

guys care more about shape than size. like if you have large but saggy tits, that's a downer. and i'd say he bigger they are, the more likely that they're saggy. so i think that's why for many of us, "smaller" ones are preferred.

pinkCadillac2 · Answer

Everyone.

Marathonmama · Answer

That’s me lol I’m barely a B and guys like them they would just like them better if they were a D cup

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'm more of a leg/ass guy personally so breast size isn't that big of a deal to me as long as you are big enough for me to get a handful that's good enough.

AnonAndrew · Answer

I'm not gonna lie to you; almost all of us prefer bigger breasts. However, you can make up for small breasts in other ways. :)

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I would not say that I ''like'' small (or very small) breasts. But I don't demand ''perfection'' - my girl is not only made of boobs - and she has many other nice details to offer.

sawno · Answer

Assuming its not to small I tend to enjoy them smaller since they tend to be the perky shape I really enjoy.

art84 · Answer

I definitely like smaller breast compared to larger breast. I don't think your boyfriend is lying to you about liking your breast. I have a friend who has small breast and I think she's attractive as she is.

Notherndude84 · Answer

I like big breasts myself. I know lots of men who like tiny perky breasts though. I wouldn’t get implants, if your man likes them that’s perfect 👌

GlowUpGirly5 · Answer

You should be focused on getting an education. 21 do you even have a career? Are you in a university? What are you doing with your life? Where are your friends?

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Some guys really don't care or even prefer a more petite built girl. If the girl is cute it might not matter that much. If you talk with girls with huge boobs you'll hear it's not all sunshine and rainbows, so try not to worry about it.

onedarkcloud · Answer

More than a mouthful is a waste I have always loved small breasts. Why put your health at risk for bigger breasts? Smaller breasts do not sag down to your panty top as you get older. Please think long and hard before making a choice.

Twalli · Answer

The spread is like this. 25% prefer small, 25% prefer big, 50% prefer average. You found a guy who prefers yours. For easy it's worth, guys who prefer smaller boons are generally richer and less likely to objectify women.

Tarifa · Answer

A lot of men like small breasts. I think they can be very sexy and attractive.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Of course we actually like them. We care about your feelings, but we wouldn't say that we like something that we actively didn't like.

Do guys even actually like small breasts or are they lying to us to not hurt our feelings?

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