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If you were in a relationship or married, and there was a happy ending massage parlour near you, would you use it?

I know several married men who use it sometimes after work or before. They say the HJ is just a little extra and offers them great relief. They don't think it's a big deal.

Stevepro68 · Accepted Answer

In a long term relationship with a retired SW. Not specifically the kind you speak of but same area. Most married men aren't looking for just sex. Most are looking for a fantasy. A unfulfilled need in their relationship. The sex can be the side show. SW focus on their client at the moment in a way you typically won't get at home. Attention affection (real or fake) and the focus all on him and his pleasure. Is why it happens. it really speaks about how their lives are not happy. It's still their fault though, for not making it right, or ending their marriage, or demanding attention from their spouses. In the end bad relationship are always both parties. But cheating is bad behavior no matter the reason.

Cormac995 · Accepted Answer

I disagree as far as I'm concerned as is the law it's prostitution. I think it's cheating, and I wonder what would happen if their wives found out. Frankly this sounds gross to me, and they should be ashamed of doing that behind their SO's back.

MysticAngel5000 · Accepted Answer

That would not be ok and would be considered cheating in my opinion. You are married or otherwise in a committed relationship. You don't need a "happy ending" massage. Your wife/partner can give you a HJ for free. Totally unacceptable for a married or otherwise spoken for man to do that.

If they're in an open relationship or it's otherwise been discussed and the partner is ok with it, well to each their own. It would not fly with me though.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

Wouldn’t be an option for me. Massage parlors that are secretly brothels actually massage any female clientele.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As your go-to relationship enthusiast, here's the tea, my friend! Keeping things spicy within a relationship is key, but a "happy ending" massage might not be the best way to stir the pot, if you know what I mean. 😏 Communication is the real MVP here! Having an open convo with your partner about boundaries can save you a one-way ticket to the Red Flag City. If the goal is to keep the love alive, exploring options both partners are comfy with is way more productive.

AviatorTom · Answer

My wife would probably be okay with that, but I still don't think I'd do it.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not my thing , I never paid for sex and never will

dean53AU · Answer

I had a lot of happy ending massages in the past but haven't had one in at least past 8-10yrs.
I har a good friend with benefits for years who loved massaging me all over and was lucky enough to get at least 1 or 2 hour or longer of full body massaging.

Falcon265 · Answer

That seems like fantastic way to find yourself divorced or in the dog house for a lifetime but if my wife in this situation said we would go together then I’ll try it once

That being said I don’t really like messages anyway. I am not a fan of strangers touching me and I tense up when it happens which is counter intuitive to what is suppose to happen at these places

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

No. I'd rather get one from my partner if I was in a relationship.

HungTexan · Answer

I like a regular massage, and don’t need a happy ending. Besides, I get enough sexual relief at home. 😁

LazerBean · Answer

No thanks, we are not interested in going into and std breeding grounds anyway

Rab1901 · Answer

Not for me. I don't even do it as a single man.

Pete671 · Answer

Yes I would if my girl was off sex for some reason, just to get a relief,,,  Be funny if I found she was secretly working there,,,

Fireguy17 · Answer

Probably not as long as I was married or in a committed relationship. Single sure why not.

Phoenix98 · Answer

We actually did have one a few years ago before it got shut down but no I wouldn't use it.

verknallt · Answer

No of course not This is cheating

ABC1x1x · Answer

I thought about it. My wife wouldn't care. I just don't want to get arrested.

Intheclouds00 · Answer

A handjob is only fun if you don't have to pay for it.

dudeinohio · Answer

There is one close to me; but i never considered it.

I_am_a_human · Answer

No, I would not use it. I consider that as cheating.

boobliker · Answer

when I was married not at all but for the right money I would now

LiamS95 · Answer

If I was in a happy relationship why would I ever need this

Wiredone · Answer

No I wouldn't go there. Legal massage parlors do not offer happy endings

Cartalino · Answer

No it is not appropriate to go for massage when in a relationship coz it might trigger that desire of cheating

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not married, nor in a relationship, but if I were, I wouldn't try it.

Anonymous · Answer

Why would I pay someone else for something I don't want in any case

HusamRocks · Answer

In other words, Cheating 🙂

XXblack88 · Answer

No I wouldn't

ilistengood · Answer

Do they tell their wives?

dougeats · Answer

if she was okay with it sure

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Not if I was in a relationship.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

I wouldn't do that while in a relationship.

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

If it was from a female, probably

Anonymous · Answer

Not if in a relationship.

dreamstar72 · Answer

No be boring for me

exitseven · Answer

No way.

jahaims · Answer

I don't cheat

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