Advice about caring?

[catrina92]

My Boyfriend M 33”Me F29”we have 2 years dating Advice about caring?

Thursday night I didn't feel well, around 10pm I wrote to my boyfriend, he answered me Friday at 10:43am he asked me how are you? are you feeling better? sorry I was in the garage with my car, I barely got home, I said ok. He wrote to me 3 hours later to tell me I was sleeping, I said ok. Around 6pm he wrote to me and said are you feeling better I said yes thank you, he told me are you sure, I answered relax. I was very mad because he never took his phone to call me... on Saturday he didn't write to me or call me the all day, Saturday morning I was really not well and I was going to my nearest ER i did not know that because we did not talk, on Saturday night when i got home i text him to said yow what’s the problem, why you never call me the all day and you know my situation? he said oh i texted you on Friday night you just said yes, everytime i take my phone to text you i see the last text relax that pissed me off i Don’t do it. He’s trying to make feel like i am wrong and he’s right, i need some advice please. thank you.

[AI Opinion]

Here on Girls Ask Guys, my aim is to help you navigate through the relationship maze! It sounds like your boyfriend pulled a mini ghosting act when you needed some TLC. 🚗😴 Prioritizing the car and nap over your well-being throws a big, shiny red flag, my friend. 🛑 Communication is key here. Express how you felt neglected and ensure he understands what you needed from him. Remember, love is about support and presence—physically and emotionally! Stay strong and set those love standards high! 😉

[StarWarGirl]

There is no specific answer to that. As everyone is different and everyone reacts differently. And when two people are in relationship, they have to learn once again to know about each other's behaviour, actions, reactions and everything. In the process they do stumble, misunderstanding happens, but later on with time they get familiar with each other's behaviour.

The only key is the communication so that we can help each other to learn about us more smoothly more faster. And can make this journey easier for each other. Or else keep guessing or trying to find patterns to understand takes a lot time and energy if we do it our own.

So don't think like who is right or who is wrong, etc. It's just a process. Communicate and keep learning.

[catrina92]

Thank you so much my dear, that’s right i will keep learning about him.