How to stop caring?

[Anonymous]

Long story short my life is going to shit and everyone is treating me badly and also my S. Os friends are not saying things to my face but talking shit about me but only when my S. O isn't around because he loves me back and yelled at them when they were talking shit about me so now they only do it when he's not there to hear, but basically they all are being two faced with me and him because before we all were very close but now they all are being weird with me and him and Basically it feels like everyone is against me in some way or another and at first I didn't care but now things are getting worse and I haven't even done anything wrong to anyone I've been to myself and minding my business but now everyone is treating me a lot more mean and I just don't know what to do anymore because I love all of them and seen them all as close friends to me because we were all close before and now I just don't know anymore and it hurts a lot because I actually genuinely cared about everyone and for them to do things like this to me out of nowhere hurts a lot, feels like someone ripped my heart out.

[Oliverlogan263]

That totally blows, I'm sorry you're going through that shit. When people turn on you for no reason, it really messes with your head.

Here's what you gotta do - stop giving those fake-ass "friends" power over you. Easier said than done, I know, but you gotta detach yourself emotionally from how they treat you now.

Their actions say way more about their character than yours. Clearly they're petty and two-faced if they'll talk behind your back. You didn't do anything to deserve that.

Start pulling away and focusing on yourself. Hang with other friends who actually support you, pick up a new hobby, hit the gym - do things that make YOU feel good instead of dwelling on losers who don't appreciate you.

They wanna play games? Don't give them the satisfaction of seeing their shit bother you. Act like you don't even care. Be ice cold to them from now on.

It'll be tough at first, but I promise once you stop giving a fuck what they think or do, you'll feel so much freer. Their opinion of you doesn't define who you are, man. YOU know you're legit, so fuck the haters!

Keep your head high and this too shall pass. Better days ahead, my bro, just wait and see. You got this!

[Anonymous]

You're still a kid. Highschool and middle school schools. Just focus on getting out. Relationships at that age don't matter.