Have you ever felt guilty for having sex with someone that was married or already in a relationship with someone else?

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Even though you aren’t the one cheating , they are the one cheating , Do you still feel guilty for screwing someone else’s partner? Or do you not give a shit?

AnonAndrew · Accepted Answer

No, I have never felt any guilt about this, because there is nothing wrong with a woman cheating.

We have evolved for polyandry, where one woman has multiple husbands. Because of this, a woman who is forced to be in a monogamous relationship (by society’s rules that tell us she is “bad” for wanting to be with more than one man), she will always feel a desire to be with another man.

Since society doesn’t allow this, the healthiest adaptation is for her to cheat. So when a woman cheats, it’s a sign of mental and psychological health, and a healthy sexuality, and a positive thing.

So when a married woman has an affair with a single man, there's no reason for either one to feel guilty.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It’s still wrong yes, no matter what way you try to justify it. Just don’t get involved with someone whose married it can literally be the end of your life. Last thing you want is a jealous husband or jealous wife catching you in the act… Sometimes even the person whose cheating with you regretting it and wanting to cover it up.

If you knew how many people are killed because of doing stuff like that you would be amazed. I think people who don’t feel bad definitely are on the dark personality spectrum. But a lot of people get there because they feel bad at first but eventually stop caring.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

What would you say about someone who sleeps with an engaged person who is engaged to a married person? I know that sounds like quite the triangle or rather rectangle and very messy. I'm not sure if the person who is sleeping with the engaged person should feel guilty when the married person is stepping out on their spouse to be with the engaged person.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

I would not do it if I knew about the relationship. Some guys lie and say they are single though. That happened to me before, that it turned out he had a girlfriend. I didn’t feel guilty though. I felt like I was a victim in the situation, not a villain.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to help folks navigate those tricky twists and turns of love and relationships! This situation can definitely stir up a cocktail of emotions. You might feel guilty, because, at the end of the day, it involves boundaries and trust—biggies in any relationship! But hey, it's also about understanding the reasons behind getting involved in the first place and perhaps learning from it. Guilt is one of those lessons in this romantic whirlwind! 😊

DishLady · Answer

No bc I don't mess with stuff that isn't mine.

AviatorTom · Answer

No. I can't feel guilty about something I've never done.

genericname85 · Answer

full disclosure: i've never been in that situation. but i don't think i would feel guilty. cause it's not my problem. i mean if anything i'm actually doing them a solid. like i'd tell them, so they can ditch her. cause who wants to be with a cheater? i sure would wanna get rid of her if i was cheated on by my partner.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope. I never approached them. They approached me. Basically I figured they were unhappy and gonna do it with someone. And if at least some of what they said was true, their husbands had a role to play in the women’s misery. No one’s hands were clean. I just made the women feel good about themselves for a short time.

In two cases, the husbands had full knowledge.

First instance she sent him down the bar to recruit me to fuck his wife. Weird but I did it.

Second case the wife dragged her husband up to me in a bar and did the same thing. Would not leave me alone with her husband standing right there. After a few minutes of conversation, she popped the question. Apparently it was OK with him. Off we went to their house.

Who am I to argue.

silvermoon84 · Answer

A married guy on my ship when I was in the Navy tried to convince me to sleep with him, and I had no idea he was married because he often took his wedding band off and I never met his wife, then he just blurted it out. I was like “yeah no thanks”. He tried more than once after that but I don’t mess with married guys or guys who have girlfriends. No way, I have too much class for that

Nikki1989 · Answer

A married man once told me he was single, and I fell for it. As soon as I discovered the truth, I dumped the jerk. I have no time for cheaters.

Abbycado · Answer

No, never. I have only slept with my current boyfriend, so this situation wasn’t likely. Thank goodness because I loathe people that would even think of cheating.

TDDMS · Answer

I've never banged a married woman, but I've had married women let me know in no uncertain terms that she wanted me inside of her. The one woman, I wanted, but my brain said to do a background check on her. And here was still married. I kept my distance from her since learning what her true relationship status is.

missindiana93 · Answer

Yes i felt bad and disgusting when I cheated. Never again. Now I despise cheaters.

aromatic_xo · Answer

I haven’t been in that situation, but I think I’d feel guilty if I were. I just wouldn’t want to be part of breaking someone’s trust or hurting a family. If I were the spouse, I’d feel betrayed, and I wouldn’t want to cause that kind of pain

PeachyPie93 · Answer

No cuz I don't fuck with losers who cheat.. I might flirt with a guy with a girl but I would never actually sleep with him because I wouldn't want someone to do that to me.

HungTexan · Answer

I’ve felt guilty one time, because her hubby is sort of a friend. He has a small dick, and isn’t very attentive even though she’s smoking hot! My wife set it up, it was fun, and now that they’re divorced I don’t feel guilty anymore.

lilBigPotato · Answer

No it's not my relationship and if they don't do it with me they do it with someone else. If my partner cheats I'm mad at him not the girl he slept with.

MrOracle · Answer

I never messed around with anyone who wasn't completely single (a boundary I imposed upon myself) because I don't like inviting drama into my life. I don't regret passing on those opportunities.

sage2021 · Answer

I never had sex with a married person or someone who was in a relationship already. What's the point?

RavVid · Answer

I wouldn't do that liking a low drama life. You are not necessarily going to know though if they lie and remove rings etc

Crazyced · Answer

Happened a few times that I know of. Everytime, ENM was advertised on their dating app profile. Were their partners actually aware? Who knows.

molonski2 · Answer

Never felt guilty NO , not ever ever. all this stuff happens for a reason.

chrissykerdock · Answer

often they don't tell you a guy caresses your thighs he gets hard simple as that

lorenzomichael · Answer

Yeah I have but I didn’t feel guilty for it. I wasn’t the one who was married. And besides the guy she was married to I didn’t know him I just worked with her.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I've never felt guilty about daydreams of however I choose to daydreams romance 💒 lol 😆

Crazzyyworld · Answer

I had some married customers. They are annoying leaving me a bad taste in my mouth but they are human. They must have a reason why they fool around.

Anonymous · Answer

i could never do that. i'd throw up lol. i can't imagine what kind of person someone would have to be to do that, on both sides.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes cause was wrong either way. didn't grt that far but shouldn't got as far as it did.  Hold good values… keeps ya out of some messes ya dont need

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

I've seen murder videos on what happens when a guy catches the other guy

DrPepper12 · Answer

Never had the pleasure for either role... That I know of...

MikeRJ · Answer

Having sex with someone in a relationship is wrong and if you do it, you should "give a shit."

jahaims · Answer

I'm not trash so I don't participate in trash activities

alice55 · Answer

Never did it and never would.

bigjake1014 · Answer

Nope not my problem they didn’t tell me before hand

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I don’t do that, because I’m not a piece of shit.

Anonymous · Answer

No, because that's what they wanted.

Rimaisme · Answer

Haven't had a sex with married man so no

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never had sex with a married person

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. I don't do it unless everyone agrees to it.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'd never do something that stupid.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

W women in the comments, well for the most part

Ferngully2000 · Answer

Nah I don’t want anyone’s sloppy seconds.

Anonymous · Answer

Cheaters should feel guilt.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No, as I have never knowingly done so.

SleepingHazard · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

I have never, nor would ever do this.

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