Would you talk to a guy just for fun if his married?

[xkildy]

I had a buddy that was always talking about his open marriage how much fun it was to go home to his wife. Still wet from his girlfriend and they would have sex knowing about it all. Well Later I learned from his now ex-wife. There was never an open marriage, I was like dang !!! So yeah, a cheater. So my question to you is, If a man and women have no interaction outside the computer, No intentions of leaving the other partner and No (I love you) I want to be with you. But you are help each other sexually. Sex video chats and stuff. What do you think about that and is it a thing? I know cheating is having any intentions of leaving the other party, right? Or is it just anything outside that person? What are your thoughts.

[Finchie40]

Some girls’and guys’ don’t care whether someone is married or not. If they are attracted to them that’s all that matters to them and they won’t hesitate to make a move on them or sleep with them. Sadly this type of thing happens a lot and it will never end. Why a lot of relationships do not make it the long haul , because a lot of people are selfish and only really care about what is best for themselves. I use to be totally against hooking up with someone that was married or already in a relationship until I was cheated on and lied to by girls’ that I thought loved me the same. Being single , I ended up hooking up with married women and girls’ that were in relationships that lied to me and said they were single , and I hooked up with ones that didn’t lie to me because they were honest with me and I realized that’s her problem not mine. so by experiencing that a bunch of times , my whole outlook on love and relationships is completely different then what it was before. I’m not saying I go out looking for married women or girls’ that are already in relationships, I just don’t waste my time investigating when I am out looking for a good time. If I meet a beautiful girl in a bar or at a store that’s flirting with me and making moves on me and she wants to hook up with me , I will more than likely hook up with her not caring whether she is in a relationship or not , The way I look at it is that’s her problem not mine. If she wants to cheat on her partner with me , that’s something she has to deal with. I have slept with girls’ that were honest with me and told me they were married and told me they weren’t happy in their relationships , because they proved to me they were being honest on how their partner treated them and why they didn’t want to leave them. So before I have sex with any girl , i tend to look at things from both perspectives before I stick my dick into her. I consider myself an honest guy and straight up tell her this is just sex and nothing more, I am believing what you are telling me but if you are lying then you will never see me again , so if you want to cheat on your husband or boyfriend with me that’s your problem , don’t make it mine. I know guys’ do this as well , but I don’t date guys’lol I am just attracted to honesty , if I feel a girl is being open and honest with me , her chances of getting me in bed increases big time , I can’t stand liars. Again I am not a mind reader , I can only give what I want to receive , if she is beautiful to my eyes and she wants my cock , I’m sorry but I am more than likely going to fuck her. You can judge me or criticize me all you want to , but this sort of thing happens a lot , and life is too short to not have as much fun as possible. Why I no longer rush into relationships with girls’ because most of them lie and most of them are selfish , I will not give my heart to a girl until she proves to me she is honest and loving and caring and wants to be with me for the long haul not the short haul. I take relationships seriously and I am a very loyal guy when I have a loyal girl that chooses me the same way I choose her. If she starts to treat me like a convenience she will become my convenience as well. I don’t stay with girls’ that try to write Sucker on my head The second I find out she is playing me , it’s over. What guys’ need to realize is Girls’ are just as wild as guys’ can be , Guys’ are just stupid when it comes to girls’ that they think actually love them when really they don’t , she just loves what she can receive from him while she is running around spreading her legs to another guy that she actually loves. I been the other guy a bunch of times to clearly see what girls’ are doing to men. Why men should never let a girl walk over him. If you are with a girl that walks over you , I guarantee she is getting drilled by another guy behind your back or she is planning to do so. A girl will stay faithful to angry that she looks up to , a guy she feels can protect her and takes lead on the relationship, a guy that doesn’t constantly kiss her ass. When a girl knows you will be lost without her is the second she starts pulling away because she doesn’t want a weakling she wants a man. A man that is perfectly capable without having her by his side that she knows other girls’ want. If you want to be treated like a King, you have to act like a King , A King doesn’t chase his Queen, His Queen chases him. If it’s the other way around , You aren’t a King, you are a Joker

[DishLady]

Honestly, I wouldn't. If a guy is "taken" -- either dating someone steadily, engaged or married -- it's a "hands off" territory. Having said this, I do have guy friends who are married. You can tell the spouse has issues when he backs off and only contacts on major holidays for a quick hello (vs. actually chatting on a more regular basis bc she's secure in the fact that I'm not going to "encroach" on her man).

[Agape93]

My guys married, his wife doesn't mind it. She knows I love him, and knows what we do. But she also knows I'm not a threat to her, he won't leave her and I won't let him do so.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate these fascinating facets of relationships. Let's dive into this spicy situation! Unraveling the definition of cheating can be like arguing with your GPS; it's tricky. For many, cheating isn't just about physical touch; it can be about emotional or intimate exchanges too, even online. If there's a secret video chat that's making things steamy, it's a red flag. Lovebombing yourself into believing it's harmless isn't cool, especially when the trust train takes a detour. Communication with your partner is key to setting those boundaries and defining what’s acceptable. Stay fabulous and play nice! 😉

[Nikki1989]

Most male friends of mine are married, as are all the men I work with.

[xkildy]

Would you talk to them in a way that's not professional?

[jazzy34]

Hell no. I don’t f*ck with married men, literally or figuratively.