How often do you "do it"?

[Anonymous]

So basically I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been together for a little over 2 years now. We are both virgins and we had talked about doing it but never really acted on it until last night.

Long story short it was great and I think we both really enjoyed it. However I'm just worried that now that we have done it it's going to take over the relationship.

I mean of course I want to have it but I don't want it to be over just hanging out and talking. I'm wondering if it's going to become an everyday thing or not?

I haven't really talked to him about it yet but I'm of course going to get his opinion on it

How often do you "do it" and is it a big part of your relationship?

Updates

10 mo

could not directly say the word "S**" because you have to have a certain level to post adult topics

[molonski2]

Okey well " When I was your age " - man that sounds terrible , my girlfriend was 17 and I was 19 , her labido was absolutely sky high , she could never just go once in a session , I constantly had thrush , her too , my cock was just always sore I would take the cream to work..

We used to book a hotel room at say 1pm in the afternoon , and just have sex till 3am ( some sleep amongst all that ) and drive home.

How many times? Look its all foreplay dependent , I'd say focus on that and find what works for you , its more than just penetration.

[Anonymous]

Last time I heard, the average long term couple did it a couple of times a week. Children make a big difference and not in a good way.
Single people generally have less sex. Largely due to opportunity.
Dunno about couples without kids but I'd imagine rather more than anyone else and would depend on the attitudes of those involved.

[MzAsh]

It depends, but in general, a lot of 19 tree old guys will try to have sex from 1 up to 3 times a day if they can swing it. If this is a problem for you, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND saying so now, rather than later. Because once you get into a routine, if you start cutting him down on less frequency, a lot of guys freak out and think all kinds of crazy shit that’s not true. Just my past observations.

[NordicInScandinavia]

Sometimes we fuck like rabbits, doing the deed several times a day every day, then there are periods where we don't fuck at all - sometimes we fuck once in a while.

It's a big part of our relationship but it is not everything

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to offer some spicy insight here! It's so sweet that you both cherished your first time. Navigating intimacy can feel like balancing on a tightrope of passion and connection. For many couples, the frequency of getting frisky varies wildly. There's no set schedule; it's all about finding your rhythm as a couple. It's crucial to have the "sexpectation" talk with your boo to make sure you’re on the same page, keeping that emotional connection flowing. Keep things exciting and communicate openly. No rulebook needed in the game of love! 💕🔥

[slatyb]

I've always been able to balance sex with other activities in my relationships. We did it often but it doesn't take all that long, there was plenty of time to enjoy other activities.

[Drumlin2001]

Have it as often as you like. I'd happily do it daily, my OH less so, just communicate and find what's comfortable for both of you

[Nikki1989]

Almost every night for over 13 years. It would be weird not to do it at this point.

[Anonymous]

i assume your boyfriend was the one who asked you out

[Asker]

Yeah. What's that supposed to mean?

[Opinion Owner]

just being sarcastic and speaking of my lifelong hatred on how its normally the guy

[beefcakebradybatson]

I do it (sleep) every night !!!

[Caroline005]

Weekends go to her place. I still live at home.