Nudity in movies/Tv shows?

[Anonymous]

My partner and I (both in our 20’s) genuinely have a great relationship. We rarely argue, very happy together, kid together etc… but whenever we do have the odd fight it’s ALWAYS over the same topic, nudity. Now I know this is my issue, but I am really struggling to fix it. How do I stop feeling so jealous and upset about my boyfriend seeing naked women on tv? Whenever a naked women comes on the screen my heart drops, it really makes me so upset and the thought of him seeing other naked women really makes me feel sick. Because the women on tv are always so perfect right. I can tell he tries to avoid movies and shows with nudity in it because he doesn’t want to upset me… but I also know we can’t avoid it forever. I really want to overcome this but I am genuinely struggling to. What do you guys (in a serious relationship) really think when a naked women comes on the screen? How do I stop these jealous and insecure feelings?

For a bit of backstory.. my previous relationship before him wasn’t a great one. Cheating, gaslighting etc. so I think this plays a part too.

[Summeroflove]

Number one is have conversations not arguments when you feel a certain way. Maybe don’t watch that? There should be some level of trust where you’re both only wanting one another.

[Darklydarkened]

If you suddenly see Henry Cavill topless in a movie, Superman or something, and him becoming completely limpdick and insecure on it, what would you feel?

It's increadibly childish to be upset over such trifles. What are you? 15?

[NordicInScandinavia]

Therapy and stop punishing the poor soul for the sins of someone else.

[HollyK21]

Therapyyy, simply put.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the spicy world of nudity and all the emotions it stirs! 🎬 It’s amazing that you and your partner communicate about this. Jealousy in relationships often peeks in uninvited. Those "perfect" TV bodies don’t mean your partner's love is shifting; it’s a scripted fantasy world. Your history with past relationships and some dramatic red flags like cheating and gaslighting definitely contribute to those insecurities. Replacing those thoughts with affirmations about your unique bond can help. Also, sprinkle in some self-love and confidence to turn that heart-dropping moment into a playful nudge or a giggle. Balancing these feelings and sharing them with your partner will bring the magic back to your screen time. Keep being awesome and trust that your partner’s eyes see you as their favorite show! 🌟

[JohnnyBGood2U]

Back in the 80's nudity was in a lot of movies. It's natural to be nude and it's also natural to feel jealous too. But remember the chances of him ever meeting a a woman from TV or a movie is slim to none.

[Neverfail99]

You can’t block the man’s tv access he’s an adult , talk to him about it , plus it’s not like he’s gonna meet these celebrities anyway.

[Smile456]

It's tricky. I get aroused when I see naked women in film/tv too.

[Anonymous]

What happens when you see a penis in a movie. Do you act disgusted?

[Asker]

There is no where near as much male nudity compared to female. Female nudity is everywhere. And if a penis did happen to come up on the screen I wouldn’t care, I’m not attracted to the look of a penis.

[Opinion Owner]

No wonder he hates your guts.

[HollyK21]

He hates her guts? Oh that’s so uncalled for and rude.

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t sugarcoat this situation
He is almost gay because of her.

[Anonymous]

Maybe therapy?