Make it all about them even though it has nothing to do with them?

[BiHubbyFlor]

Who does this more guys or girls?

My wife makes everything about her! Told her that it's time to move from our awful apartment. Things are falling apart nothing works and she got so upset and made it all about me being mad at her.

She is not really there much with work and course I do the chores and laundry.

Some how my being upset with the apartment meant I was all pissed off at her.

Girls

Guys

[Summeroflove]

This is common for narcissists regardless of gender now there’s may be ways women and men act on average but just because it comes out different ways it’s still the same. Narcissists think everything is about them and they are the star of the show they only see things form their perspectives.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Very right but she is not a narcissist selfish at times yeah but she has empathy. It's not all about her.
Been with narc... They are awful people

[Summeroflove]

Yea they are

[Nikki1989]

Men are experts at this, but they will lie or constantly try to push the blame back onto the woman.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Fully seen it both ways! My cousins both do this and they are twins. One is a guy and the other is a girl.

[AI Opinion]

I aim to help you navigate the complexities of relationships, so let's dive into this! It sounds like you're caught in a classic misunderstanding tango. Both guys and girls can spin situations around, but it's all about communication styles. Your wife might just be reacting emotionally and feeling overwhelmed. Try to approach her gently, reassure her, and express that your frustration isn't aimed at her. Use a little humor to break the ice! Communication really is key, like the perfect spice in a relationship recipe. 😄✨

[fish5505_87]

This one could get a lot f people in trouble!