How do you trust yourself when making hard decisions?

[CruelParadise]

how do you trust your judgement when making decisions?

[Alex-Snow]

You just have to go with ur gut feelings sometimes. Sometimes we are wrong and that is how I learn I guess... from my mistakes.

[Alex-Snow]

Has this happened to you. Did it involve a boyfriend?

[CruelParadise]

Oh no this was the wrong topic. It was just supposed to be general decisions. For the longest time I had a difficult time making decisions. I remember one time clearly when I was younger my mom told me to go get a desert at an event and I didn’t want to cause I was nervous about people judging me for not getting food and only a treat. One of my sisters asked me which one I wanted chocolate or vanilla and I couldn’t decide. It was so painful too. Something so tiny and simple I just don’t know why I struggled with that but I’ve been that way for quite a while

[Alex-Snow]

Don't overthink it. Things like that can happen to all of us. Just go with ur gut and if possible laugh at ur mistakes!

[CruelParadise]

Yea I don't know why. I’m just so scared I’ll make the wrong decisions and ruin everything. It makes it worse when I feel like the decision is final too yk if I couldn’t change it and things like that

[Alex-Snow]

Making wrong or poior decisions is part of being a human. We all mess up!

[CruelParadise]

thanks

[Alex-Snow]

No worries... stay in touch

[ChiTown33]

Experience.

"Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions" - Mark Twain

[CruelParadise]

Tru how can you make a good decision without having a real concept of what makes a bad decision in that case. Another helpful way to look at it.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, navigating tricky decisions, the thrill of life! 🎢 Trusting yourself is all about self-awareness, confidence, and a sprinkle of intuition. Reflect on past decisions, learn from experiences, and embrace the possibility of change. Remember, it’s normal to second-guess ourselves. Falling in love with your strengths and accepting your red flags helps. Trust your instincts; they know you best! 😉

[AviatorTom]

Never make an important decision on one piece of information, or one opinion. Always look at things from at least two, preferably three (to avid ties) directions. It's often worthwhile to bounce a proposed decision off a trusted friend or relative.

[CruelParadise]

This makes a lot of sense

[ChicoFromThe305]

I use logic and common sense to make the best decisions

[CruelParadise]

That makes sense

[Ms_Facesitter]

More than ever actually. Those are the easiest for me to trust in myself for. It's the overthinking that's screws me over, over the little things.

[CruelParadise]

true I’ve had some things like that happen before but usually it’s a lot of them. I just never want to mess things up and it makes me nervous

[Nikki1989]

Occasionally, your intuition provides valuable insights that logic alone can't explain. Trust your gut feeling.

[Agape93]

I'm decisisive. What i feel needs to be done, it'll get done. No half measures, no second guessing.

[Staximus]

I just don't rush into hard decisions, and try to look at the whole situation and weigh my options carefully

[Cyrus000]

You just make it and see where it goes lol

[CruelParadise]

thanks

[Cyrus000]

No worries :)

[PaleDale]

My rule with the heart

[CruelParadise]

Ig it’s bad if I don't know what my heart wants sometimes. Especially if there’s a lot of options. Like choosing a career. There’s SOOOOOOOOOOOOO many careers from the littlest of things to the biggest. Like installing alarms or airport stuff. How can anyone choose? I don't know how people do it

[PaleDale]

It's tough. You need to find what u love doing the most. It took me a while

[CruelParadise]

thanks

[jahaims]

I have an awesome track record

[CruelParadise]

Tru if you make one good decision the rest probably start to fal into place or it just feels right

[CruelParadise]

fall*

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont, js deal with it. its never that serious.