I have to keep on asking/prompting my boyfriend, to do things, at the same time I don’t want to force him to do things we need to meet in the middle?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been thinking a lot about the tasks and decisions that me and my boyfriend have discussed, and I feel like I need to bring up a few things. For example, he mentioned putting his house for sale and taking initiative for his parents anniversary party. I don’t want to keep on asking him to do things it is not right he needs to take action.

He also suggested that I move into his house to save money: he said we will both save money. I said you will save money. I don’t feel comfortable paying half the bills for a property that isn’t mine. I think it would be more financially beneficial for him than me. I then offered to buy the other half of his property. But he does not like the idea of that. He agreed to us buying a house together but insisted of me moving into his house for a couple of months to a year. Which I agreed on the condition that I pay the same amount of money I pay in my parents house. So I think I am going to buy my self a house without telling him.

I do love him but I don’t like his attitude regarding this

[AI Opinion]

Ah, navigating relationships can be quite the adventure, can't it? You're feeling the imbalance in your relationship and want to find common ground. It's important for both partners to contribute equally and value each other's feelings. Your instincts are spot-on about financial decisions affecting both of you. It's always best to communicate your concerns openly, even if things might get a little spicy! ❤️ As for the housing situation, trust your gut and don’t force anything. After all, love isn't about keeping score, but teamwork and respecting each other's boundaries. 🌟 Trust that communication will guide you through!

[strateguy632]

Stop prompting and dump his sorry self.