Have you ever danced for your partner… or had them dance for you?

[7Phoenix7]

I recently stumbled on this song called Ecstacy by Ciara (fair warning: if sultry R&B or sexy songs aren't your thing, skip it!)

🔥

But me? I hit play and instantly gave my teddy bear the performance of a lifetime... 10/10 he was blown away 🌬💨🧸 lmao...

Back when I was in a relationship, I used to dance for my man every now then... and let's just say, the dance was only the opening act lol.

[Simslover92]

I never have because I'm super shy but I might for the new guy I'm seeing. We actually talked about this which is funny. I told him I couldn't really dance like that. Only to certain music. He says he would love to see me dance so I guess it may happen lol

[7Phoenix7]

Do it and then tell me how it goes! It'll be fun if you do lol

[Simslover92]

Lol ok I will try to get it done lol

[RavVid]

Not sure what a teddy bear performance is but but have answered my own question in my fetid imagination.

I like partner dancing with my girl. Back to front dances are particularly good and get quite hot. I really like feeling my girl's body move.

Keep dancing!

[7Phoenix7]

Teddy bear performance... that's what happens when you're single but feeling sexy and want to put on a show lol so instead of dancing for my man... loll

Partner dancing is also great and so much fun.

I will never stop dancing haha.

[RavVid]

Have you tried back to front? Ass to groin is certain to get results - fundamentally a standing lap dance.

Sadly flirtatiousness and teasing is one of the first casualties in a relationship; dancing I think is a way to preserve that. It is inherently teasing to feel your girl's body moving with you.

I like modern jive by the way because it is easy to adapt and invent dirty moves that really shouldn't done in public. Like back to front contra side steps. Girl steps to the right guy to the left then center and reverse. Public decency requires a gap but that is unnecessary in the lounge room since trouser tents are ok there.

It is really great you are dancing for your guy. Maybe you should get him up too and see what pops up :)

:)

[7Phoenix7]

Yeah I've been dancing since forever and yea... I've done just about all of what you said haha.

I'm actually single now though. I was with my ex 14 years.

[RavVid]

Well you are a woman to be prized then. :)

[AviatorTom]

In my lifetime, I've had a few women dance for me. None have wished me to dance for them.

[7Phoenix7]

Haha lol I asked my ex to dance for me when we where together. It was hilarious 😂

[PeachyPie93]

Nah.. I'm not a dancer lol
I have tried a bit of a lap dance but my ex always made fun of me when I tried to be sexy so I became really self-conscious and felt stupid to do that sort of thing.

[7Phoenix7]

Aww he sucks for laughing.

My ex danced for me and I laughed but only because he was TRYING to be funny lol

[PeachyPie93]

Well that's fine since its supposed to be funny lol..

[SmokesTheScrapper]

Both my partner and me have danced for each other but it was more like fooling around. When we went the dirty route, I'd usually sneak up behind, wrap my arms around them and start dancing together instead of for each other. Also we would hardly dance at all.

[7Phoenix7]

Sweet 💕

[Nikki1989]

Does headbanging count?

[7Phoenix7]

Hahaha YES 😆

[loverguy123123123]

Most men can’t even make it past the opening act. Before you’re warmed up his loads blown and he’s rolled over asleep or watching football lol.

But. Sure I wouldn’t mind dancing for someone

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao oh cmon

[loverguy123123123]

You know it’s true.

[loverguy123123123]

I would argue women are more sexual then men. Men just get too desperate but there is exceptions to the rule

[7Phoenix7]

I gave him 30 minutes to recover and then I was back at it 😂

[loverguy123123123]

He could have offered to eat you during that time lol

[7Phoenix7]

True, that happened a few times

[loverguy123123123]

He probably misses you don’t he lol

[7Phoenix7]

I would say so. But not because of the dancing lol

[loverguy123123123]

I’m guessing you’re pretty experienced

[7Phoenix7]

He was my first lol but we were together a very long time.

[loverguy123123123]

First can mean a lot of things

[7Phoenix7]

He was my first everything

[loverguy123123123]

Makes more sense. There is the first time loosing your virginity. First time being in a relationship. First serious relationship. First kiss. First… fill in the blank

[7Phoenix7]

Yep lol

[loverguy123123123]

Was he your only relationship between then and now

[7Phoenix7]

Yep.

[loverguy123123123]

I feel like you get bored a lot on this website 😆

[7Phoenix7]

I'm not bored with you loverguy123123123 😂

How did you come up with that username?

[loverguy123123123]

I was just bored thinking of a name

[loverguy123123123]

You’re not boring either. You’re really trying to charm me aren’t you

[7Phoenix7]

I'm just being myself lol

I think I'm much more charming in person.

[loverguy123123123]

What do you like more white chocolate or vanilla

[7Phoenix7]

Hmmm... that's a tough decision lol

I love white hot chocolate...



But after 'cake batter'... my favorite ice cream flavor is vanilla

[loverguy123123123]

I can make you some. It may taste sweet and salty lol

[loverguy123123123]

I’m sure you would love my cake batter hot coco. Drink up.

So do you have good flood insurance?

[7Phoenix7]

Cake batter hot cocoa sounds good.

Why flood insurance?

[loverguy123123123]

That’s for me to know and you to find out

[7Phoenix7]

Lmaoo

[loverguy123123123]

It’s been a while since the pipes got flowing isn’t it. Will it be like a water main break

[7Phoenix7]

They're always flowing lol

[MikeTheBartender]

I dated a lot of strippers back in the day, so I had my share of dancing for me, the reverse I don't believe so.

[7Phoenix7]

Oh you have to dance next time lol

[MikeTheBartender]

Sounds good 💃🕺

[MemeSupreme]

no but drunk me has

we're completely different people

[7Phoenix7]

LOL at least you don't get mad and want to fight like some people when they drink

[MemeSupreme]

well you gotta be angry beforehand to be like that lol

[AydenHazor]

I've done some partner dancing, but I also only started dancing since I haven't had a partner. I always saw myself as a graceless klutz up until the last couple years

[7Phoenix7]

Partner dancing is fun too!

[AydenHazor]

It is a lot of fun. I've done a couple varieties now, always with friends though. I would enjoy dancing but for and with a partner if I had one, but what will be will be

[7Phoenix7]

Yes indeed 🙂

[Joshydavid25]

No and no.. I think somebody in the past did it for me..

[7Phoenix7]

What do you mean? You said no and no lol

Oh you mean someone that wasn't your girlfriend?

[Joshydavid25]

Well my ex never danced for me, and I never dance for her.. But yes somebody has dance for me that wasn't my girlfriend.. LOL..

[7Phoenix7]

Ah okay 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah alright 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah I see 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah gotcha 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah understand 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah cool 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah nice 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah fantastic 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah great 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah amazing 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah marvelous 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah superb 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah lovely 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah astounding 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah brilliant 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah magnificent 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah remarkable 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah sensational 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah stellar 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah excellent 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah splendid 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah delicious 👍 lol

[7Phoenix7]

Ah yummy 👍 lol

[Joshydavid25]

Ah scrumptious 👍 lol

[Emmytexrex]

I have had them dance for me I don't know how to dance I don't want to be a laughingstock 😂 so I don't even try

[7Phoenix7]

Laughter is good for the soul haha 🙃

[Kelly6]

@7Phoenix7 Yes I always dance for my husband

[7Phoenix7]

I know you do for sure

[TonyMetal___86]

It's a nice open up for a woman to dance for her husband 😁

[7Phoenix7]

It is indeed lol

[TonyMetal___86]

Nice status on your profile, i love this song 🙂

[7Phoenix7]

Me too 🩷 thanks

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome

[Anonymous]

Nope, I don't even know how to dance :P

[7Phoenix7]

Well that dance definitely works for a certain position lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Really? What position is that? :O

[7Phoenix7]

You'll find out when you finally go talk to her and make her your girlfriend 😆

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she'll make me he boyfriend, I like dominant girls ;)

[Opinion Owner]

*her* boyfriend (typo)

[7Phoenix7]

Lmaoo

[Opinion Owner]

😆😂🤣

[Anonymous]

Yes. Never made it to the end of the song b4 he's mounted me like a horny wildebeest

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao

[fish5505_87]

My wife would leave me if I did!!! She has for me though!

[7Phoenix7]

LOL I bet you're GREAT dancer

[fish5505_87]

lol😳🙃

[Jay-_-]

She danced for me, and yes I felt like Ekko from arcane...

[Jay-_-]

[Jay-_-]

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao oh gosh

[Jay-_-]

Cringe? I KNOW.

[Jay-_-]

[7Phoenix7]

You are silly af

[Jay-_-]

[mrkdvsn]

Dancing for each other has never entered my mind

[7Phoenix7]

It's fun haha

[mrkdvsn]

OK, I'll take your word for it.

[Knightwatch27]

Not that I recall no. But being danced for does sound, appealing.

[7Phoenix7]

I think you'd enjoy it for sure

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yeah lol I have fun times now? I don't know I’ve changed so much.

[Joshydavid25]

You'll probably get there again one day..

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Joshydavid25 maybe… who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, I guess it's a matter of if you're younger or if you really find that love to where you want to do it again..

[7Phoenix7]

Yeah sometimes love will pull up on you unexpected lol

[KittygosMeoWW]

Hmmm doubt it

[Joshydavid25]

You doubt you'll find love again or doubt you'll wanna dance for anybody again?

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Joshydavid25 both lol

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao 😂

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah okay emo girl.. Lol..

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Joshydavid25 🖤

[DepthsofMe]

I haven't as i get shy and self conscious of my body. But my boyfriend is really sweet so maybe for his birthday

[ABC1x1x]

I'm white and can't dance. (Truthfully I'm 1% black and thats why I like good music that my wife hates) id love for her to dance for me but I also wish she was black...

[7Phoenix7]

Why do you wish she was black?

[exitseven]

no, I cannot dance I cannot sing either.

[7Phoenix7]

I can only do one of the two lol

[DrPepper12]

I haven't. She's have for like 10 secs

[7Phoenix7]

10 seconds?

[nicfire171]

No but I’d die if a girl did this to me

[7Phoenix7]

She'd bring you back to life

[Phoebe85]

Yes to both sides.

[7Phoenix7]

Awesome

[Phoebe85]

Sometimes at the clubs.

[Miah06]

Nope.

But bet teddy was very happy

[eagle1951]

never