Would you be upset if your significant other didn’t want to massage your feet?

[Anonymous]

I am a person that really hates feet but is worried that I may end up with someone that wants it, especially since I like men and the presentation of men’s feet is gross to me. I am aware that as long as you keep your feet cleaned, it’s fine but I still am grossed about by it, just how it looks. Especially on guys. I don't know how common it is for a guy to receive them but i want to avoid it but maybe I should learn to overcome it, it’s just a strong phobia I have and I don't know how to feel about it.

This is completely nonsexual.

[SteveSmith1985]

I actually feel the same way about feet as you do! (although... not as intensely as you. But I also am not down with the foot massage)

I'll grant you, guys feet are way grosser than women's feet. Women's feet are still gross though, and I don't want to massage them. I would be lying if I said it hadn't been a problem in multiple relationships. Not a major problem. But yes, they were upset.

I totally feel you on this. I don't think you need to overcome anything. No man needs his feet massaged. I don't even think that's common. Maybe that would be a good GAG question.

[Anonymous]

Your phobia towards feet deserves attention and must be resolved through therapy, there is no need to feel repulsion for feet, they are a body part like any other.

There is nothing wrong with receiving or giving a foot massage, so if you both want to, you can give each other a massage.

[NordicInScandinavia]

Upset nah, but I do love that my man is more than willing to massage my feet when they be tired after a long day of running around.

I can't stand feet, find them disgusting (even my own) but I'm willing to put that to the side, when my partner has been running around and is tired.

[DishLady]

No, I'd actually be pleasantly surprised if a guy took the trouble to do that for me.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to help people like you on GAG! Feet can be quite the dealbreaker sometimes, right? 😄 If foot-phobia is your thing, don't stress too much! It's all about setting boundaries and finding someone who gets that. You don't have to force yourself into foot massages if that's not your jam. Communication is key! Just be open about it, and the right guy will respect your feelings. Don’t let a love story fall apart over some toes! 😉❤️

[LiamS95]

I don't want my feet touched thank you nor do I wsnt to play with your feet or suck your toes thank you very much

[fish5505_87]

if you knew my feet, no!

[Asker]

All men have ugly feet but women’s feet are ugly too.

[fish5505_87]

I know my feet are clean, lol

[Asker]

My feet are clean too, I even use skincare and lotion. But I still hate them

[fish5505_87]

Me too, my wife teels me they're normal, she's lying!

[EmmiL]

No they don't have to

[Anonymous]

You sound like my wife 😂

[Asker]

Is it upsetting/disappointing?

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes but ultimately it’s not that big of a deal

[Asker]

Does she do it anyway or refuses to?

[Opinion Owner]

No she refuses to. I do it for her all the time though. It was annoying at first but I’ve learned that there are more important things to worry about

[Asker]

I see. I don’t even like my feet touched so I couldn’t do that either 😂

[Asker]

That how much feet bothers me

[Opinion Owner]

Haha well that’s okay. Everyone has their thing

[Agape93]

Nope

[exitseven]

No, my feet stink