What is your current relationship status? Single, taken, searching, it's complicated or I give up🤣?

[Babebytheshore85]

Single

Taken

Searching

It's complicated

I give up 🤣

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For those who selected searching, how long have you been searching and how are you searching for a mate? Are you putting yourself out there?

[Zack-Bann]

Single at the moment


I haven’t given up but I’m also not actively looking like I was before


I’ve had a lot of success with short term dating and not so much with long term relationships


Part of me wants to find my “ride or die” and just build a strong relationship that stands the test of time


But I’m no closer to knowing where to even start on that project


So I just enjoy the perks of single life at the moment and up until a few months ago it was filled with casual relationships
But I grew tired of the same song and dance

[OneViewpoint]

LOL, it’s complicated. But not really. I’m divorced, single and loving it. I meet women all the time. And I get laid pretty much when I want to. But I’m very selective about who I’ll talk to or allow to hang out with me.

Having a small friend group and no long term romantic commitments is nice for a change. It leaves me unburdened and free to do what I want with most of my time.

That could change but for now it’s great. Still waiting to trip over “the one”. Not convinced she exists at this point though.

[DishLady]

"Taken" sounds dangerous. 😂

Neither "searching" nor "given up". I figure if there's someone who's supposed to be in my life the fellow will manifest himself -- or knows me well enough to figure things out.

[EmmaMary]

@babebytheshore85

We've been together for almost thirteen years, lived together for five and will be celebrating our seventh wedding anniversary in November.

[Staximus]

How is it that you've been married for 7 years but only lived together for five?

[EmmaMary]

@Staximus

We lived together for five years before marrying seven years ago.

[EmmaMary]

@staximus

In other words we've lived together in total for the past twelve years... Now, does that make more sense?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on Girls Ask Guys is to connect and share some relationship wisdom, so let's dish! 🚀 I'm happily taken, living the dream with my wife and our awesome 7-year-old daughter. Even when life tosses some curveballs, I believe love’s all about hanging in there and keeping things spicy. Remember, love life is like a rollercoaster—hold on tight and enjoy the ride! 🎢❤️

[Finchie40]

I am currently single I just went through a separation / divorce with my ex wife. So I been focusing on myself and moving forward best I can. Hoping the next girl I fall for , is the right choice

[AviatorTom]

My wife tells me I'm married, and women are never wrong, so...

Taken is my answer.

[EmmaMary]

@AviatorTom

Happy Wife Happy Life!

[Orion84]

I'm single, and planning to remain that way.

I haven't given up, so much as I've just taken myself off the market. After my last relationship, I've just decided that I'd rather be by myself.

[RingOfFire]

This is a really good question.

I went with its complicated. I have some options, but at this point in my life I can't pursue them because I am not really good relationship material. I've got some things I have to resolve before I can focus on it a relationship. I don't want to date someone if I can't take the relationship any further. It just wouldn't be fair.

[Joshydavid25]

I'm as single as a lone wolf 100 miles from the pack... I want to find a new pack, but I'm not actively searching until I can bring something to that new pack..

[Staximus]

Just bring yourself dude

[Joshydavid25]

@Staximus Yeah, you're not wrong.. But I just want to make sure that myself is efficient enough..

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

The status is taken and untouchable.

No one can compete with what S h e offers.

Even Gods are jealous. Luckily, they're busy doing whatever godly stuff they have to do.

[katiesmuff]

Boy am I in the taken category with a husband and four kids.

[ProbablyClueless]

Searching. But I'll say that it's really nice to be at a point of life where I have options with multiple women.

[RavVid]

None of these. I'm just getting laid as I can.

[YourExLover69]

Single... On the Verge of not searching anymore.

[OlderAndWiser]

Not just taken. . . married.

[Makeushiver]

It actually happens to be be sort of complicated now but you are attractive enough to simplify it

[strateguy632]

I just got dumped recently. So i got a cute haircut and move on.

[Shiprex]

Separated after 21 years (14 married) and getting on with moving away for sanity purposes (sanity not because of relationship place and job)

[KittygosMeoWW]

Complicated-not searching but not opposed to meeting someone now if it feels right and the vibes are there

[TheSpaceGnome]

Single and trying to figure out where to search.

[Sluttt]

Well i am weighting on a market so i know how much i am worth it.

[PeterLegg91]

I'm single and happy, if the right person comes along then that's fine too

[loveyouoak]

I am currently single and will remain single until I die. 😌✌️

[Luopio27]

Given up. there's a video on youtube explaining why men dont get matches in tinder! Check it out!

[WonderingManII]

I've kinda been searching for 22 years. I give up, but I emotionally I can't give up.

[constantine15]

lol I gave up years ago, there was never much hope for me. Girls don’t like me. So now I just try to enjoy my life alone.

[Ariascaravens]

Super complicated, yet simple in some ways. I understand more about our relationship than he does at points. I don’t know how to explain it other than there’s no labels atm, but there’s a connection.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, always have been, yes, it's complicated, and I'm kind of still searching.

[DMC93]

Single, but still afraid of asking a girl out. So these days just repeat while I mind my own business and listen to Morrissey

[PeachyPie93]

I give up for the time being..

[NicholasRedone]

@PeachyPie93 what should your ideal man be? ☺️☺️☺️

[red-lipstick-girl]

@NicholasRedone Wow, didn't you delete your account?

[NicholasRedone]

@red-lipstick-girl thank you for your concern, yes I had not reactivated within 7 days many many months ago, and then I with the GAG rules created a new account months since and then recently I deactivated within the allowed 7 days and came back on the third 🥉

[PeachyPie93]

@NicholasRedone Uhh.. I just want someone I like the looks of, we get along well, have the same sense of humour, he is caring and has a sense of romance. I am not skinny so obviously that cuts my options down A LOT lol, so I am not bothered to find anyone rn..

[Cameila99]

I’ve been going on date with a lady hoping to become more..

[7Phoenix7]

I am single like the last bag of chips.

[serious]

Single. Always been single.

[Anonymous]

The psycho was making death threats on me for a month

[Kaneki05]

I gave up at 17

[Zack-Bann]

At 17 it’s not even the pre season yet
You basically gave up before even starting

[Kaneki05]

Blame my exs, most were great and that's the problem. If they didn't work out no one will. And I'm an extreme introvert who rarely interacts with others so I have no social life to really find a girl anyway.

[Zack-Bann]

Nah bro, can’t blame your exes forever
Even if it is their fault
They all moved on with their lives it’s time you did too

Besides any “ex” you had in middle school is hardly an example of adult relationships
She probably dumped you because her astrology sign said she should

Just give yourself another chance.
You’re older, you know more, have more to offer.

You can do this

[Babebytheshore85]

A lot of you are insufferable. You're 17 your focus should be on university and a job.

[Zack-Bann]

@Babebytheshore85 he’s 24.
Been single since 17

So he’s a pure canvas if you’re interested in ruining his life 😏

[Babebytheshore85]

Omg now I see it. Still insufferable he should be focusing on university and a career. A man who chases money, career and goals are the ones who get women not the guys chasing and feeling sorry for the

[Kaneki05]

Nah I don't need golddiggers thanks. And no my ex's were great better than other women by miles, things ended for much more personal reasons than anything trivial, none of them were so petty.
Hence I learnt even if you find great people problems still arise, and to find someone suited to you is a certain low chance even lower the less normal you are, and I am not a average guy.

[Zack-Bann]

@Kaneki05 every guy thinks he’s not an average guy.
We’re all some brand of average

And I obviously know I won’t get you a date here on gag
But it was a perfect example of how easy it is to suggest hanging out when talking to a girl

It doesn’t have to work every time but you lose 0

[Kaneki05]

@Zack-Bann Yeah but I actually aren't. Like I said I'm an extreme introvert without much social life and that's how I like it.
To meet people one has to go out. Online dating sites exists sure? But I don't have much hope in that.
That's just surface level stuff, without going into my weird personality anyway.

[Babebytheshore85]

Kid you don't have any gold to dig for lol get some therapy. @Kaneki05. I'm serious because you are wounded

[Babebytheshore85]

Being a loser with nothing going for yourself will not get you a woman. as a man it is your duty to be a provider, leader and protector. Without being financially stable you cannot do that. So I guess your mother was a golddigger right? @Kaneki05 whoever this girl was she did a number on your psyche. Mean while she's living her best life

[Kaneki05]

It's sad you can't see the irony of your words. And yes I don't have any gold to dig that's the point, I don't want a woman like you. Luckily I know from my ex's there is good ones who don't care about that, and no despite your beliefs one of them actually got with guy poorer than me and they have a baby.
I didn't want kids so that was the answer to that one. I'm sure this blows your mind a woman liking a guy for more than his wealth.

[Babebytheshore85]

@Kaneki05 again, you don't have gold to dig for. Secondly, a husband needs gold to provide for his family wake tf up. Are you dumb? Is a woman supposed to marry and have kids with a bum and wish for the best while you guys are on street corners? Did your mom do that? I don't think the exes were the issue it's you. You belong alone you're not well mentally

[Kaneki05]

You didn't read my point at all. Lmao.
Want more evidence that there is good women who don't care about that, recently a woman married a homeless dude when she was on a good paying job and he was obviously dirt poor.

How about one for the history books Marx even had a wife and ya know what? She was from a rich family she literally went from riches to rags for him.
Marx was dirt poor and they fled their own country to live in another while been poor as hell. She could've just stayed rich but nope she liked a guy who had nothing.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Whole new level "I'll look when I make it"

[shortster]

Single, searching, and about to give up.

[shortster]

12 years. Dating apps, match makers, blind dates. Trying to.

[Babebytheshore85]

You gotta go outside lol dating apps people are a lot more shallow because that's all they have to go off of

[shortster]

Depends on the app. Some apps attract shallow people and others attract serious people.

[Babebytheshore85]

When I say shallow, it doesn't mean the person isn't serious. You can be serious and still be shallow because there is nothing to go off of on apps but surface level such as looks and if they're attractive then you look at their bio.

[shortster]

So you shouldn't consider someone's appearance? It shouldn't be the most important thing, but it should make the list. You can't really have a lasting relationship with someone you think is ugly.

[Babebytheshore85]

@shortster I didn't say that. When you go out and meet people organically they see your looks and personality and everything in between all at one time. So there value yeah on looks but they're also considering the entire package. Dating apps if you're not having luck means they're just going off your looks and swiping no.

[Miristheiss]

Married, 2 kids and 1 cat.

[NicholasRedone]

Single and searching chuckle chuckle 🤭🤭🤭🤭

[glennos89]

Hoping to find love again

[elizamichale1]

Taken but available 😋😋

[LiamJHayden]

Single but open

[Kelly6]

@babebytheshore85 married and complicated

[QuestionObsession]

Never giving up. She is out there somewhere!

[zagor]

Single and no longer looking.

[smahala1991]

Mix of single and I give up (almost)

[Yohenis]

Just fucking around no strings attached

[thegreenyogi]

Single.

[coffeeandcream]

I'm trying to decide between 2 girls.

[debbiedenise]

Three years now.

[WhitneySnow]

Taken

[exitseven]

I am very married.

[Fireguy17]

married

[Anonymous]

Your future husband

[Danny_dan92]

Single and happy

[BobbyLee789]

Single

[BobbyLee789]

Dating apps, bar scene

[Babebytheshore85]

Dating apps and bars aren't the place if you're looking for long term

[BobbyLee789]

My dad met his current wife on match and they've been together for 18 years and counting.

[Babebytheshore85]

That's them though and there are more places to meet people

[Adogdog]

Single!

[scott04sa22]

Pending 😂

[dudeinohio]

Taken

[Jay-_-]

Single...

[grega239]

I gave up.

[PaleDale]

Single.

[fish5505_87]

Married.

[yotaman99]

Single