My boyfriend's brother saw me naked in the shower?

[JayBaby87]

I was at my boyfriend's house and his brother accidentally walked in on me while I was taking a shower. He apologized for it and it hasn't happened since. But, he did tell me not to tell his brother because he thought the brother would be mad at him. And I said OK. I never mentioned it to my boyfriend because I felt that he wouldn't want to be with me anymore if I told him and would no longer want me at his house. What should I do? Should I tell my boyfriend or not? This incident happened in the summer of 2024 and his brother felt really embarrassed by it. Help me someone!!!

[Finchie40]

I don’t know why his brother is worried about his brother knowing? It’s not like it happened on purpose , I can’t tell you how many times my brothers’s saw my girlfriends’ naked and I saw their girlfriends naked by accident , Just tell your boyfriend the truth , if you boyfriend gets upset about that and no longer wants to see you again , then that’s a guy you should really reconsider staying with if he is that insecure , over it. It’s not that big of a deal , accidents happen

[NicholasRedone]

@Finchie40 and she's 32 and I'm guessing the brother of hubby must be a legal adult - so like what's the issue, butt naked, move on lol 😆

[Levin]

Jesus. People need to chill the f out.

It was clearly an accident. He saw you naked, no big deal.

Shame, embarrassment. Isn't there more important things to worry about in your life?

If your boyfriend gets upset over something so petty, to the extent of wanting to end a relationship, then that is the concerning thing.

[EmmaMary]

OMG... I've not seen this "old chestnut" in a long time! lol

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

I knew this BS would reappear eventually.

[AI Opinion]

My aim is to sprinkle a little wisdom sparkle your way, dear! Looks like you've found yourself in a bit of a *drama scene*! 🎭 If the brother genuinely seemed embarrassed and it hasn't been an issue since, consider whether it's creating any trust issues in your relationship. If you can't shake the feeling, maybe have a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend but keep it light and breezy. 🛁 Keep it about your feelings rather than pointing fingers. Trust is your best friend here. You've got this, superstar! 🌟💁‍♂️

[JayBaby87]

Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.

[JayBaby87]

Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.
❤️❤️❤️❤️

[NicholasRedone]

Lol lady I appreciate genuinely the maturity of this question and all however ; let's be real here ; is it really a big deal? No advice yet the Australian in me is pretty calm about such hazards of life and nobody's perfect 😅👀 now of course there's limitations to living that carefree however - crikey (shock) I don't think I'd think I had a healthy relationship if my woman threw the towel in that easily about "love" or "we're through" throws ring 💍 😅

[NicholasRedone]

@jaybaby87 not too often I hear a woman called Jay or J stands for a female name lol 😆

[NicholasRedone]

Disclaimer - my answers provide no advice - no livability here on me

[NicholasRedone]

*no *liability on me.

[Jooying]

Accident happened, not a big deal. If you have already promised him not to say, then don't tell anyone else.

[NicholasRedone]

@Jooying I share your mind

[KrisPW]

I wouldn’t hide it if asked, but it sounds like it was no big deal and I wouldn’t mention it.

[Anonymous]

This whole thing sounds fake. You're 32 years old and worried about someone seeing you naked? A year ago? Didn't you ever have roommates or go skinny dipping with friends?

[NicholasRedone]

Butt naked mind you and ditto I felt a little suspicious lol yet also gag is full of trolls and if legitimately have given a legit answer

[Sirenboobzilla]

If this happened a year ago, why are you fretting about it now?

[Tarifa]

So what? Do you think you're the first one he sees naked? It's not the end of the world.

[chocolatetwopointo]

just keep it to urself, ur boyfriend probably won't care anyways

[JayBaby87]

Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it. But, I think that my boyfriend would care.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why? what do u think he would do? it was an accident

[LiamJHayden]

Nothing would be gained by sharing this. And after having waited so long, it could backfire.

[PaleDale]

It was just an accident and the guys apologized and left, so I don't think it's a big deal.

[Jeff51]

Simple accident. Not a huge deal. I say just go on.

[seeyounexttuesday]

time to let it go. let it go! it was a year ago and no big deal.

[MannMitAntworten]

Take it to your grave…

[zombiewoof]

Life happens, let it go

[Anonymous]

You should tell your boyfriend.

[MasterKS]

sounds like you are more excited than his brother?