I dreamed of my boyfriend cheating on me, and when I checked his phone it was really happening?

[Anonymous]

I am a girlfriend who usually never checking my boyfriend phone. We was LDR for 7 months, and i had a dream about him cheating on me few days ago. When I woke up i checked his phone and open his instagram, i found out a girl DMs him. He didn’t reply yet but when I opened the chat I read the conversation about talking about condoms, meet up and money transaction, like she gave him bank account.

He fought that early morning, because he didn’t admit that he cheated on me and keep saying they just friends. I called the girl before he woke up but she also said they just friends, they just met up for a coffee. But why they talked about condoms in the chat.

He apologized for having a woman friend, but he kept saying he didn’t sleep with her. And blocked her now.

Would you believe him if you were me?

[Finchie40]

No he is clearly up to no good , cheaters lie all the time when they are busted , if he was just friends’ with her then why did he block her? He blocked her because he knew he was busted , don’t think for a second that he is no longer going to communicate with her , he will find another way to do so without you knowing , Another thing if she was just a friend? He would of told you about her so you wouldn’t suspect anything , not keep her a secret , So it’s up to you on what you want to do , but understand you are a sucker if you fall for his bullshit. When a guy really likes a girl , and is happy being with that girl , he doesn’t invest his time into other girls’ period , especially behind her back? Only selfish people [Cheaters] do shit like that , The same goes for girls’ when she is loves and cares about her boyfriend, she doesn’t invest her time into the opposite sex period , Selfish people will try to sugarcoat this every which way possible because they can’t accept the fact that they are wrong period. Why I no longer jump into committed relationships with girls’ until she proves our relationship is her top priority over everyone else period and understands boundaries. And wears my shoes the same way she wants me wearing hers. It’s called respect for each other , unfortunately your boyfriend doesn’t respect you , he just likes the convenience of you period

[Asker]

He blocked her coz I asked to.

[Finchie40]

Exactly , he will find another way to connect with her

[RavVid]

Was the context who is getting the party size box of condoms this time? Or was it like discussions here as to whether you like/dislike condoms. Context is pretty important here.

Similarly with the bank account. She might have paid for a meal and he transferred his half to her.

Or it could be a sex for money deal and she might be an amateur prostitute.

You are judge and jury and seldom do we have complete knowledge unless we come home unexpectedly for lunch. .

You have three choices

1. believe what has been said

2. Outwardly believe but keep a watchful eye out

3. Convict and hang.

For myself I don't think a partner should give you cause for doubt.

[Nikki1989]

Tip: If your man seems glued to his phone, 95% of the time he is cheating.

[Asker]

Tbh he is not, the phone is always on the table. Maybe because i rarely check his phone or check his phone. Just use his phone to open video on the IG reels or order foods.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach who's been around the block, let's decode this tangled mess! 🚦Dreams aren't crystal balls, but they can be a nudge from your gut. That convo about condoms and cash is sketchy. 😬 Blocking her is a start, but trust is like a glass – once cracked, those sweet moments won’t fill it for long. If you believe him, let it go, but—if those red flags keep a-dancin', it might be time to waltz out. 😅 An honest heart-to-heart, without emojis, might reveal more! Your move, detective of love! 😊

[Anonymous]

Yeah there’s no reason to talk about condoms with friends , he was cheating

[red-lipstick-girl]

Your boyfriend is a professional liar and cheats.

[Asker]

I think so, i think she is prostitute.

[red-lipstick-girl]

In conclusion, it doesn't matter whether the girl he is cheating on is a prostitute or not.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're a psychic...

[MasterKS]

Power of brain, write a book how to do it!