Was my boyfriend eyeing up my cousin or am I overthinking it?

[theionano3]

We were going to a family party and my boyfriend kept looking at my cousin, who is very pretty. She was wearing a dress and he kept looking at her legs. I think. Or am I just being paranoid? It’s the first time I’ve noticed something like this, we’ve been together nearly 2 years 😭😭

[Finchie40]

He is probably eyeing her up if she is attractive, so if he is just looking that’s one thing but if he tries acting on it , then that’s something you shouldn’t tolerate period. Even though him looking is considered disrespectful , everyone who has eyes looks , so it doesn’t really mean anything unless they try to act on it

[Anonymous]

Most likely he was checking her out. A lot of people do this, especially men in my opinion.

[DishLady]

If you noticed it and it bothered you then it's probably something to talk over with him.

[theionano3]

It’s awkward though!!

[DishLady]

Yeah of course, but you're not the one who made it that way. He's supposed to be your guy...

[theionano3]

I love him

[DishLady]

That doesn't matter. If he's got a wandering eye AND ALSO does not have a problem eyeballing a BLOOD RELATIVE then he's not the right guy for you.

[Abbycado]

Oh, I am sure he was admiring her legs. He is a teen boy after all. XD

[AI Opinion]

Hey fabulous person! My mission here is to sprinkle some wisdom and help you feel empowered in your relationship 🌟. Now, about your boyfriend and his wandering eyes: it could be just a one-off moment where he noticed something different. We're wired to notice beautiful things around us, don't ya think? But, if it's nagging you, have an open-hearted chat with him, sweet talker style! Communication is your BFF in this scenario, and it’ll help ease those worries and strengthen your bond. Keep shining and stay confident! 💃💫

[HusamRocks]

Keep your eyes opened, observe, analyze, take actions when needed, don't rush it, don't overthink it, look at attractive guys when he's with you to see his reaction as a test
Good luck 👍🏻

[Asgard356]

I wouldn't worry too much. Lots of guys do that, but maybe tell him it's something you're noticing and you don't appreciate it. I would definitely have a serious talk with him, though.

[theionano3]

It’s family that’s the only reason

[Asgard356]

Ugh that's bad, but looks at legs for a second is something lots of guys do, as long as he wasn't checking out her whole body

[theionano3]

Well he sorta did

[Asgard356]

I thought it was her legs, but also a lot of her body too? Sounds like he wants her, eesh

[Staximus]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/eco_xvkEQlg

If he keeps eyeballing other girls you better give him the boot

[WonderingManII]

He might have been. Men are attracted to the female body. That is part of the reason why He is with you.

[zombiewoof]

He will always look, does not mean he is doing anything, trust him, all guys look. All girls look too

[theionano3]

Hmm Okayyyy

[Tom567456]

Are you sure he was looking at her body/legs specifically

[theionano3]

Pretty sure

[Tom567456]

What do you think that means

[Paige90]

It happens more than you think

[theionano3]

What 😭

[Paige90]

People looking at a relative

[theionano3]

She’s 12 though 😭😭

[Paige90]

What makes you think he was eyeing her? What does that entail?

[theionano3]

Message me

[Anonymous]

How can anyone who wasn't there know?

[theionano3]

I just need to talk about it 😭

[Jennz6]

Is your cousin beautiful?

[DCVsMarvel2]

prob.

[eagle1951]

could be

[Anonymous]

Men will be men

[theionano3]

Maybe that’s the problem..

[Opinion Owner]

You gotta right now