So, my boyfriend has always had a close relationship with his cousins, which didn't bother me at first but I found out he had matching bracelets with his cousin which I personally think is a bit odd plus he lied and said it wasn't a matching bracelet then later on i found out he had it with his cousin. I was thrown off but decided to put it aside for a while. Later on, he went on a trip to California and stayed with his other female cousin for about a month or so. He has sent me pictures where they were always wearing matching outfits and were way too close to each other in the pictures. I didn't know what to think so I asked him and I got yelled at "Because I'm crazy to assume that something is going on between them". I felt embarrassed then let it go again. After he was back, I randomly saw that he was saving bikini pictures of her in snap and the conversations were something like "Don't cry looking at the pictures, I know you miss me" and just odd way off texting a family member. I am also close with my cousins but I have a distance because I see them as my own siblings. After I saw that, I got mad at him and I asked him why he would save something like this. His excuse was "I wanted to see what she sent so I saved plus they always dress like that in California" ... I genuinely don't know what to think here. Am I overthinking this or is something really off about their relationship?
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maybe yes, cousins can be very close without sex they can flirt very bad due to the closeness but nothing can come of it. hopefully you understand if you meet her in Califoa
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Wearing matching outfits is just plain weird in my opinion, and so is the matching bracelets.
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No your not over thinking it you should confront him
No, that is weird.
Let it go, it means nothing
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