Kissing is critical. When that stops things are bad?

[Anonymous]

I'm married 25 years
Two children
Wife and I had very turbulent relationship
After several rows I stopped kissing her
And for 20 years now there has been no kissing
Is common thing or just me?

[Finchie40]

I am shocked she stayed with you for all those years without you kissing her? It sounds like your wife just stayed with you for the kids’ sake, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she was getting fulfilled elsewhere. Females’ want passion just like us guys’ want passion , so if she isn’t receiving it from her partner , she is more than likely receiving it elsewhere or she doesn’t care for passion at all. I been the other guy a handful of times without realizing I was , I slept with married and taken females’ through the years that told me they were single when really they weren’t , when I found out the truth and asked her why she was cheating on her partner , she said he doesn’t really care about me , there is no passion , no excitement , he doesn’t kiss me or make me
Feel loved or wanted. I am just with him for the kid or just with him for financial reasons, she would say she is a nobody to him and that she is just there. Sleeping with married and taken females’ is probably one of the best intimacy and affection I ever had with a girl because she is craving it big time and I am not complaining whatsoever , after I find out the truth she is cheating on her partner , I do feel bad for him , mainly for the fact that his partner is cheating on him and going home to him like nothing happened. I was only confronted by one husband that found out his wife was cheating on him with me , and I told him the truth that I had no clue she was married whatsoever. I was with her for 6 months and I was hurt as well that she lied to me. So I had words with her and she cried to me saying she loves me and doesn’t love her husband whatsoever. I told her to leave him then and come be with me. The girl treated me like Gold and completely rocked my world in bed , but he ended up taken her back , which blew my mind as to why he did knowing she was screwing me for 6 months a shit ton of times and I was shocked as to why she stayed with him. The whole thing is crazy. I haven’t heard from her or him ever since. How they brushed that under the rug is beyond me.

[Asker]

In my case I know she's faithful. We have lots of sex. Every day until recently. And now every second day.

I do feel I shouldn't have married her. I mostly married her because we had a baby and it seemed the decent thing to do. I did love the baby and now the young woman my daughter.
If we didn't marry I think I would have separated... if I found someone else

[Finchie40]

Well if she is having sex with you all the time then she more than likely loves you but sorry to hear you don’t really feel the same for her , Marriages can be tough if both partners’ don’t see eye to eye on things , My marriage of 20 years turned to shit as well , when she decided she wanted to to be selfish when our kids’ got older , I always thought her I would make it until the end., but I was wrong , Her and I are still mutual but we no longer have passion for each other , it’s like I don’t even know who she is anymore , once we separated i eventually started dating other girls’ and realized there are better girls’ out there at times I wish I never got married to her because I feel like I missed out on a lot. Love only saves the day when your partner Loves you the same , if not it’s a waste of time.

[Asker]

There a lot in what you saying

I think sometimes over time a person becomes better, reveals things that are like a bonus

But equally a person might have nothing beautiful hidden to be revealed.

That how I feel. We're like two people who share a house. I have retirement on the horizon. And what to do about that if it means seeing more of her. Don't get me wrong we can endure each other.

I'm going holidays next with an old friend. He's retired. Try to expand my life that way

[Finchie40]

Yea maybe some time apart from her will help you see the bigger picture , whether you want to go back to her or not , they say time apart can sometimes make the heart grow fonder , when my wife and I separated, basically her decision, I realized I really didn’t miss her , I actually felt relieved that she wasn’t gone , when she realized I really didn’t care about outlet time apart is when she started to panic , and tried running back to me , I told her if she truly loved me , she wouldn’t of needed the separation, so I’m sorry by you needing space from me , made me realize there are better girls’ out there that don’t need constant space from me , so you are best to move on , because I already am. She cried and begged and begged for me back and o told her I need time. So maybe you will miss her or maybe not

[Nikki1989]

20 years?

That poor woman!

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to light up some insightful sparks here! After 25 years together, it's understandable that things might cool off a bit. Kissing is a spicy ingredient that keeps the romance simmering! 😉 When it’s been off the menu for 20 years, it might signal deeper issues needing attention. It's not super common, so dust off those flirting skills, plan a date night, and let the sparks fly! Maybe it's time to reinvent that old flame into something new and fabulous! ❤️

[Asker]

How can turn off the bot?

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I never had a kiss.

[In_Trance]

just you. fix it