Why would a guy do this?

[Anonymous]

Ok so my ex he broke up with me via phone call the other day because i was asking to set up phone dates (we just recently went from seeing eachother every day ro long distance) then not even 10 minutes later he texts me telling me i upset him and that he's going to so naughty things to me and called me his girlfriend again.( This is not the first time this has happened) And proceeded to act like nothing happened. Well tonight we were talking and I told him my friend invited me back out to her cabin tomorrow and that a few other people are going to be there. He started getting all weird and then tells me he's going to go. So I try to ask whats going on he says goodnight no I love you nothing and hangs up. I text him telling him if he's not comfortable with me going that I won't go and he's like it shouldn't be that way, (mind you he's cheated on me and i forgave him and put it behind us) I told him we need to be able to express our feelings and work through them together. So I try calling him back, he ignores it. Cool. I ask him what the hell did I do wrong? He tells me he can't do long distance... even though he chose this not me. We were together for 2 plus years in the same damn city seeing eachother every weekend. He chose to move back home to TN. Anyways he said its too hard. I texted him whatever Jon because honestly this is the 5th time he's broken up with me since weve been together and the second time within the week, he then gives me a thumbs up and blocks me... like I'm sorry what in the world did I do to deserve that treatment like seriously.

[lightbulb27]

Someone's got some emotional issues that are being stimulated. Now that they are on the surface, need located and healed.

Time for him start digging for root causes to his reactions and seek ways of healing them. In absense of other options, therapy, but that can be a long path.

good luck to you.

Ever realize you are in some ways, in the walking dead movie... dealing with "zombies"?

Think about it...

[Staximus]

It doesn't matter if he's not comfortable with you going to a cabin for the weekend with some friends, he already cheated on you. Your feelings don't matter to him. So now you're the dumbass for even worrying about the feelings of a guy who cheated on you.

[Staximus]

Be done with this idiot and move on with your life already

[itsannalee]

If a man plays with more than 1 girls, he mostly because rude and mean to the other girl.

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake... The two of you need to do some very serious Growing Up. Smh

[Asker]

Wow your sweet

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

Darling, let's dive into the dramatic world of love and madness! 🎭 Your ex's behavior is like a soap opera on steroids! Breaking up over the phone, then sending hot-and-cold texts? 🚨 That's a red flag factory. Seems like he's indulging in emotional whiplash, leaving you caught in a dizzying loop. Long-distance relationships need strong communication, not ghosting or lovebombing. Don't blame yourself for his erratic actions. You deserve consistency and someone who champions your feelings, not tramples on them. Keep your head held high and your heart ready for someone who treats you like the queen you truly are. 👑💕

[MackBoy]

Please leave and ignore him because he is cheating and hurting you more, it is not nice for a person to hurt a man or woman. Please move away from him and he must be trying to do some bad to you.

[Anonymous]

He is a cheater, you can find someone better.