Guys, what are your boundaries, how would you react in the following situations?

[Anonymous]

Your wife/girlfriend/partner would like to go...

1. for a wellness/sport massage where the masseur is a male.

2. for a wellness/sport massage where the masseur is a male and the massage is done for a naked client.

3. for a yoni (female genitalia) massage where the masseur is a male.

4. to a male gynaecologist/dermatologist.

I've got my own opinion, of course, but I'm interested in yours too.

Updates

9 mo

I'm still interested in your opinion.

[Miristheiss]

1. That is forbidden. If she did it I'd leave her.

All the other situations are basically the same so one covers them all.

[Asker]

Could you please explain a bit? I think there is a very big difference between each.

[Miristheiss]

Getting examined and touched by a guy... sometimes naked... sometimes in intimate spots?
All a no go.
Go to a lady for that. A genital massage? No way anyone is doing that to her.

[Asker]

OK. I understand.

[Miristheiss]

LOL, is that even a real thing, "genital massage"?
Sounds like happy endings type of stuff.

[Asker]

"LOL, is that even a real thing, "genital massage"?"
It is real, it's called yoni massage.

[Miristheiss]

I guess if she desires that then we would have never been together in the first place due to incombatible values and boundaries.