What's worse, complaining why he won't marry her or contemplating about cheating on a husband?

[Danielle93]

I've seen several posts about women complaining about their bfs not proposing and marrying them after 4+ years. Fewer are getting married for obvious reasons. I already know why.

Then once in a while I've seen a couple post about married women that admitted to just not feeling the excitement anymore and want to cheat. They want to cheat for no reason. So he risked it all just for her to make the rest of us look bad and destroy a trusting man.

What's worse? A woman complaining that her boyfriend won't marry her or a married woman still complaining and even contemplating about cheating?

Woman complaining about being a man's girlfriend for years... and she wants marriage

Married woman complaining and contemplating about cheating

[Summeroflove]

Obviously cheating is worse and there are people who have had so many affairs that it’s just nothing to them anymore and unfortunately the husbands the wives have become brazen about it but the husbands just never accept the truth.

Now, there are men who future fake and that’s wrong but these women aren’t entitled for someone to marry them. The very way they’re acting may be why those men refuse to marry. A lot of people unfortunately will string someone along for years on end. But there are people who rush marriage another red flag. There are people who demand to be married within a year of being with someone. I would advise against that…. There are couples that been together a year or more that break up. It’s harder being married I promise.

But it’s disgusting to see how nonchalant people including many men are about cheating. How freely they will brag about it behind their spouses back. How they paint themselves to be the victims as if anyone makes them lay down and have sexual relations with another human being.

[Finchie40]

Contemplating on cheating is worse , if someone wants to stoop that low in their life then there is definitely something wrong with them , and they shouldn’t be in a relationship at all if that’s the case

[NordicInScandinavia]

Contemplating to cheat, because despite of what others on here seem to believe then harming or even just contemplating harming someone is ALWAYS wrong.

[EmmaMary]

@Danielle93

It's blatantly obvious that it's married woman complaining and contemplating about cheating.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to spread some wisdom with a sprinkle of humor and a dash of flirtation. 😄 So, sweetheart, both scenarios are sticky situations. Constantly nagging about marriage might push your man to pull a ghosting move, while contemplating cheating is a serious red flag that could destroy trust in a heartbeat. It's like picking between a rock and a hard place! Building open communication and keeping that spark alive is key. Go ahead, lovebirds, keep it thrilling! 💞

[Nikki1989]

From the perspective of overall well-being and minimizing harm, the married woman complaining and considering cheating is the worst situation..

[WhitneySnow]

Contemplating cheating

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

U sound like a dude behind pink account

[Danielle93]

Nope. I'm not anonymous. I actually know what's ruining relationship with the genders. I know why less men are getting married. I got male cousins that told me how bad the situation has gotten now.

[MasterKS]

cheating after marriage is becomes a trend.

[Danielle93]

Yeah that's sad and now less people are getting married. Now it's endless years of dating and eventually getting dumped and more single mothers.

[MasterKS]

@Danielle93 the truth is single mothers are the easiest option for sex.

[Danielle93]

But they failed their actual purpose of getting lifetime commitment from a man. She can get sex (that's not how a woman scores) easily from any man but not marriage.
From the biological evolution, a prehistoric woman left alone with her offspring and used just for sex would've died.

[MasterKS]

@Danielle93 The men's side a single mother is easiest sign for sex, less effort.

[Danielle93]

Pretty much. Yet there is still that one man out there that actually still marries her. One of my co-workers (in her late 30's) is a single mother of two teens. Why do you think that man marries her?

[Danielle93]

She just got married last month.

[MasterKS]

@Danielle93 sorry but i bet it won't last long.