Why would your boyfriend say your wifey material even tho he doesn’t want to marry you?

[Anonymous]

[Vesuvius87]

He's trying to lovebomb by dangling out the carrot, only to remove it when you want to reach it. Don't give him sex. Don't move in with him without a ring.

Too many men will try BS you with the wifey material "oh my beautiful wife" nonsense without ever proposing. They want an extended casual relationship with just the benefits of romance and sex but will never marry you.

Don't fall for it. You're not a wifey material without an engagement ring. You're no one's wife until married.

[Booklover_90]

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

[Asker]

I haven’t had sex with and refused to

[Asker]

With him I meant

[Anonymous]

Probably to keep you reeled in. When men who are just messing around feel their squirrel gravitating toward another nut they tell them things to butter them up. To reel them back in till she starts to do it again. Maybe he’s saying you’re wifey material for another man, not him. But he’s still going to keep you around for now. He may be saying that to get between your legs as well. Have you had sex w him? You still a virgin?

[Asker]

I haven’t had sex with him

[Opinion Owner]

Oral?

[Asker]

I don’t suck dick

[Opinion Owner]

How long have you two been together? But you’re a virgin yes?

[Asker]

We been together for about 10 days and yes I’m a virgin. He said he’s a virgin but I think he’s lying.

[Opinion Owner]

So if you think he’s lying why you still w him? Move on. Find someone better

[Asker]

I think he’s lying but I’m not sure. I was thinking about moving on and remaining friends with him.

[Opinion Owner]

Why would you remain friends w someone who you think is lying to you and can’t trust?

[Asker]

Yeah you’re right it’s time to move on

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. If you continue to be friends w you chances are he’s going to think there’s still a chance w you sexually. You can’t trust him because if he’s lying about being a virgin he’s not being honest. That deals w trust.

[Asker]

Yeah but I’m looking to date others guys

[Opinion Owner]

Well hopefully it works out for you

[Asker]

Yep I’m avoiding him

[Opinion Owner]

What exactly are you looking
For

[Asker]

A good guy who’s respectful and not a player

[Opinion Owner]

What exactly is a good guy? I mean there’s a lot of good guys out there who women won’t even give a chance if he’s not cute or handsome.

[Asker]

Idk🤔

[Opinion Owner]

lol might help to figure that out first because a ship w no destination is just going to keep floating wherever

[Wetdreamz]

Because he doesn't want to q) marry in general, 2) he lied, or 3) you are married material, but not for him

[DryGermanGuy]

Getting the benefits of having a "wife", while ignoring the responsibilities of having a wife.

[Nikki1989]

Men can be so degrading with the wifey material crap.

[LazerBean]

Trying to flatter you to get aex

[Starrrboy]

Gaslighting...

[BarryLiverstone]

Because he’s not ready

[In_Trance]

that's two different things

[laly520]

manipulation