I told my teacher that I loved him

Question

i am 22 in college and I really fell in love with my teacher. I told him about my feelings and of course, he rejected me. later I learned that he's already married. I didn't know about it really.

but it's been months since we talked about my feelings for him. and the confusing signs are killing me. he looks at me, he stares at me, he sometimes gets nervous near me. I feel it.

what are all these things about? am I taking him too serious?

heatherlu · Accepted Answer

I assume he's just very uncomfortable around you now since it happened.
He has to maintain a professional relationship with you - which normally you don't have to do with someone you've rejected; and he's trying to make as little deal out of it as possible.
You've put him in a difficult situation and he's just trying his best to cope.

Stop reading too much into it - he's rejected you, he's married, it's never going to happen, you need to get over this. Fast.

iPood · Accepted Answer

no he doesn't. he probably feels awkward because he rejected you. It's likely a really uncomfortable situation for him and he probably is trying to avoid you as much as possible so he doesn't get in trouble with the faculty. Leave the poor guy alone.

Stacyzee · Accepted Answer

It could either be A) He likes you more than you know and doesn't want to act on his feelings because he respects his wife. B) He feels extremely awkward around you, ever since you told him that.

Shpongolia · Accepted Answer

In most institutions, the faculty could get in serious trouble if the administration found out if they were fraternizing with students, a romantic relationship would be even more detrimental. Even if he wasn't married, starting a relationship with a student could cost him his job.

Ugliness · Accepted Answer

Ooh big mistake. Find out if a teacher is married before hitting on him or her.
And, as it's been said, by me and by others, a teacher would be a fool to risk his/her job by getting involved with a student. So...? Wait until you graduate. Assuming he's not attached.

Anonymous · Answer

Just because a man is married, doesn't mean he's in a happy relationship. Divorces and open marriages happen all the time. He could be into you and just unsure what to do because of the situation you two are in. It is illegal for a teacher to date his student and is probably a little immoral as well.

Mr_Solo_Dolo · Answer

If I was your teacher and some girl told me she loved me I would be creeped out. I think you should just leave him alone and no, I don't think he likes you.

avksxXXVII · Answer

You don't know anything about the man. How do you love him, exactly?

mattygfromtheMD32 · Answer

hes nervous because someone who admitted they loved him is in the same room! anyone would get nervous!

someonerandom · Answer

Maybe his just not comfortable around you anymore and gets nervous.

Anonymous · Answer

If you love him, you would have known he was married. It was just pure lust, or infatuation

NomelLemon · Answer

He is married! Case closed.

Blaxican619 · Answer

He's married. Leave the man alone.

Senses · Answer

Forget him! There are enough men on this planet

Anonymous · Answer

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PANDAmonium · Answer

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