What does it really mean when a woman suddenly wants to " Be Alone " ?

[MrEnigma1122]

We where planning to marry eventually. Last year i caught her going to dating sites, okok im kinda of computer guy , well more than kinda so i watched the proxy at home and followed the logs, well dating sites are not the most secure things so i was able to pull some logs it was basic flirting and she seamed apprehensive to all the thirsty guys , i wrote it off as just a fun turn on for her and let it go

Then i saw the logs one day while replacing the gateway for a new one and i saw all this traffic to "Sugar Babies dot com", well for those that dont know its place u can sell yourelf to supposedly rich older men, you can get paid for each act or get paid weekly as a companion or monthly as concubine , etc etc. Then things got weird and her schedule changed? she's a elementary teacher, wtf after 3:30 u dont work, if so rarely. She had some excuse about certifications but i knew she hated doing those so my suspisions grew. I started grabbing packets from our outgoing nodes and even though encrypted ( sorry guys encryption isn't as safe as u think it is) i found out she was meeting guys and selling that ass to strangers.

Dumb ass me chooses to be rational , i was a swinger once in my first marriage , sex isn't something im uptight about. So i forgave her didn't ask to many questions removed the " snoop" ware from network and we moved on havng one of the best years of my life , but i noticed her withdrawing. Now she's come at me almost militantly about how she needs her space and wants " to be alone" we are seperating. Supposidly the relationship we have we have agreed to date and still be close but im not buying it this feels like its over she's just to chicken to tell me her real feelings.

Does " i want to be alone" mean a.) im so guilty i can't look u inthe face anymore for betraying you b.) I am seeing other men c.) i want to be someones sugar baby? d.) I just need time alone for real and will be back once i figure it out. e.) none of the above? .

[Finchie40]

Dude you never stay with a girl that cheats on you period , you dig your own grave by giving her another chance , she is clearly not relationship material whatsoever and she clearly doesn’t love you , she just likes the convenience of you and what she can receive from you. Because the truth is girls’ do not cheat on a guy that she truly loves , So I hate to break it to you but you were used and the only reason she wants space from you is so she can go spread her legs to someone else. Which she is probably already doing or has been doing for quite sometime behind your back. I have been the other guy over a handful of times with lying married women and lying taken women that told me they were single when really she wasn’t. what I realized from all these girls’ was the fact that they truly didn’t love their partners’ and loved me instead. Taken girls’ from my experiences rocked my world in bed because they were head over heels for me and not their partners’ A girl that is head over heels for a guy isn’t going to cheat on him period. These girls’ treated me like Gold because they were head over heels for me and not their partners’ why I immediately dump a girl that cheats on me because of she cheats , she doesn’t love me whatsoever. So my advice to you is to kick her to the curb where she belongs and let the other guy have her and go find yourself a girl that actually loves you that wouldn’t cheat on you period , unless you like being cheated on

[MrEnigma1122]

wise words man thank you , always painful but true, its done , sometimes words can't be taken back and i said a dictionary of things i should regret but i dont, i hate being cheated on and tired of being captian save a hoe. Never again, never again, never again. two words so powerful but so easy to forget, thanks that hits hard but true. Tommorow is just another game waiting to be played. To all the whorebombs that think this is childish you probally sell that ass to so good to know she won't be alone like she claims she wants she will always have your whorish wisdom to comfort her when she hits the old and ugly wall like all women do eventually hard to sell that...

[Finchie40]

No problem man , I hope I didn’t come off to harsh to you , i am just trying to help you open your eyes more and help you understand that you deserve a girl that loves and values you and appreciates you and most importantly respects you. So you can move on from that selfish whore and find yourself a good girl that actually loves and cares about you , that won’t cheat on you. Cheating is a selfish act and being cheated on can easily damage our self esteem’s , but understand you aren’t the problem , the cheater is the problem because they are a selfish POS person that will never experience true love because they are selfish people period. So kick her to the curb where she belongs and before you know it , she will be some washed up whore that no guy will want anymore whatsoever. And we she realizes you met a girl that respects and loves you , she is going to regret everything she did to you. One thing I learned about females’ is to never allow them to walk over you , Because a good woman will look up to you , not down at you. So find one that looks up to you and appreciates you and you will experience a much happier relationship with a girl

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

For fuck's sake...55 years of age and writing all this complete and utter fucking Bollox...Grow Up!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[NoDecision]

Means you watch too many old movies.

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[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some relationship wisdom and add a touch of spice! 😜 She's looking for alone time, and I'm getting some real mixed signals here. "I want to be alone" can mean a combination of those options. She might be feeling guilty, exploring options, or genuinely seeking time to think. But let's face it, open communication is key when you're dealing with this emotional rollercoaster. 🛤️ Trust your gut and see if this is a red flag or her need to rethink things. Believe me, love can be as mysterious as a cat trying to fit in a tiny box! 😅

[Nikki1989]

Are you 55 or really 15? This was a painful read.