If someone is quick to cut you off/block after expressing hurt, they never cared about you?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

For the most part Yes , because the truth is , they are a selfish person that only really cares about themselves. Someone that actually loves and cares about you , isn’t going to immediately cut you off and block you and disappear over a disagreement or an argument , So the people that do that are selfish people that only care about themselves , they have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. My advice to you is to continue walking the other way from them especially if you haven’t heard back from them within a reasonable amount of time , if it goes over a day or more without hearing from them , keep walking the other way from them , even if they eventually decide to reach back out to you , don’t go back to them period. You can accept their apology but keep moving on from them and realize you deserve someone that doesn’t walk away and disappear from you period , especially over a disagreement or an argument. Whether it’s a friend or a partner, do not let them back into your life. People that are selfish like that , do not deserve having anything from anyone , because all they care about is themselves. They also might be using the disappearance it as an excuse for them to be up to no good as well, so don’t trust that shit whatsoever . When I am in a relationship with a girl and her and I have a disagreement or an argument and she decides to walk away and block me and disappear without letting me know where she is going , and I don’t hear back from her within a reasonable amount of time , basically that same day , she already dug her own grave with me, because I will not be waiting for her return , Partners’ that demand space or need space in a relationship , aren’t good partners’ whatsoever., because they are selfish people that only care about themselves. They take the space so they can by themselves time to be up to no good , behind your back , whether they are or aren’t up to no good , do not take them back into your life , because they don’t love you at all , they just love themselves and they only love the convenience of you. Never be a convenience to anyone. Someone that just likes the convenience of you , will write Sucker on your head without you realizing they are doing so , I let a girl write Sucker on my head one time before because I thought Love would save the day , not dealing I was being a dumbass , and just a convenience to her. I eventually found out the truth that she was taking the space as an excuse to be up to no good , so I no longer stay with a girl that takes space from me , she is a selfish person or a selfish whore

[Asker]

You are absolutely right. Because if the situation was reversed, I know for a fact that I wouldn’t have done that and even if I did, I would at the very least apologise to him and explain why I did what I did rather than disappear and let them assume the worst. Because the self doubt and loss of trust in your own ability to judge people that consumes you afterwards is agonising and you wonder if you ever really knew the person or not.

[Finchie40]

Exactly if someone can’t wear
Your shoes the same way they expect you to wear theirs, then they are just a waste of time , why I no longer rush into relationships with girls’ and prefer to be FWB’s with some strings attached because unfortunately a lot of people are selfish and have selfishness inside themselves without realizing they do. I will only commit to a girl that is proving she is committing to me and being loyal and honest with me , that doesn’t wave red flags. Someone that actually loves and cares about you , isn’t going to do things that wave red flags because they put themselves in your shoes. Someone that doesn’t wear
Your shoes , walk the other way. Once i started doing this and learned to remove selfishness, I been experiencing better relationships with girls’ and I no longer wait for a girl that all of a sudden needs constant space from me. Why be in a relationship with someone that you need space from? To me that is t love, that is selfishness , Selfish people do not last in relationships because all they care about is themselves. I had my fair share of selfish girls’ and ending it with them was the wisest thing I did for myself because it helped me land non selfish girls’ that actually understand what it means to be on a relationship, that understands honesty and respect goes a long way. Someone that needs space from you or disappears from you , doesn’t respect or love
You whatsoever, they just like the convenience of you, so again, never settle
For someone that doesn’t make
You their top priority , you will be doing yourself a favor and eventually you will experience a happy fulfilling relationship with someone that is on the same page as you are. Selfish people will never experience true love because all they care about is themselves , Kick them to the curb immediately

[Asker]

Thank you, that makes a lot of sense.

[Anonymous]

I would not say so. Sometimes distancing yourself from someone seems like the best way to heal. Unfortunately, that isn't necessarily true.

[Asker]

Then what is the best way to heal?

[Opinion Owner]

It is entirely dependent on the people involved and the situation.

[AI Opinion]

As your relationship coach buddy, I’m here to fill you in on the details! 🚀 Blocking or cutting you off after expressing hurt could be a knee-jerk reaction. Sometimes people do this to protect themselves or because they're overwhelmed. It's not always about not caring, but maybe about them feeling vulnerable or needing space. Remember, communication styles vary, and actions in the heat of emotion don’t always tell the full story. 💔 Communication later could bring clarity!

[Ironco]

Every situation is different.

If I'm the one who gets rejected and ignored, I'll give it one last shot to explain how I feel, and say my last peace.

Then all you can do is cut the communication. Go silent. They are rejecting you and letting you go.

No need to let them bring drama you don't have to put up with.

I'll admit the ghosting does suck, but sometimes it needs to be done.

Now if I'm the one who has had enough, I'll tell the person what I'm going through, give them a chance to say their peace, but then it's time to move on.

Either way is does suck when the conversation and communication shuts down. That's life...

I'll never block anyone or cut all communication, you never know what time will change in the future. But you do need to let time pass and move on. Who knows, someday it might change and you'll get what you are looking for.

I wish you luck...

[Nikki1989]

Not necessarily. While it's easy to jump to that conclusion, someone who abruptly cuts you off after expressing hurt may be reacting out of immaturity, fear, or an inability to handle conflict, rather than a complete lack of concern for you.

[Asker]

True, but if they never come back to explain or apologise, what does that say?

[whereismyjohnny]

Nope, they are probably really hurt or simply had enough of your shit.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they are very hurt , and they deserve a bigger apology , that reflects your regret in actions

[Asker]

But they are the ones who hurt you

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

No, it just means they’re THAT hurt

[beefcakebradybatson]

Maybe you merited their action.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily.