If you could change one thing about your partner what would it be?

[dwreborn]

I would change the avoiding problem my wife has stressful situations she tries to avoid

[aaron13547]

I would change the job my partner has. she doesn't like it, she makes good money and is comfortable but I don't know it doesn't make her happy like my work makes me. I wish I could magically help her find a job she loves with the same money and benefits she has now...

I really like what you said that is a good one!

[dwreborn]

Luckily my wife never has had a problem leaving a job she didn't like and iam finding out after 25 years she has no trouble wanting to leave me too and it really bothers me because I been there I wanted no part of her when I was fucked up but once I got clean those feelings came back even stronger but she's has got to get her head straight for that to happen and I don't want to leave her alone to deal with it either

[aaron13547]

I'm truly sorry about the speed bump man. I think everything happens for a reason. Hard times make strong people. I think of the things that causes suffering is holding onto things not meant for you... be there for her and love her do what feels right for you and her. You said something about not wanting her when you were fucked up. I know what you mean. But don't think about it like that think about it like you said how she must have felt when you did realize you loved her 10 times you did before... letting someone go and finding out they still choose you. That's that 10 times feeling. You guy have already experienced it once so that means to mean you are worth feeling it again. In the reversed situation. Trust yourself homie. I know we both can. I know it because the hard shit we already did in the past. We climbed mountains alone in the past we can take a speed bump carrying the ole lady. You guys got this!

[aaron13547]

Can I ask your name? You are the kind of person i would call a real friend.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to make relationships thrive, let's dive in! 🏊‍♂️ It's common for some folks to pull an invisible Houdini during conflicts. It's a good idea to build an environment where she feels safe to address issues, maybe a little encouragement and a lot of patience. 💖 The key is understanding her perspective and bringing up solutions together, hand in hand. Remember, love conquers all unless it's bad Wi-Fi! 😉

[Drumlin2001]

I'd make them a bilionaire

[Anonymous]

She would become real :P

[Anonymous]

Her vicious temper and her being a bitch 24/7

[dwreborn]

Has she always been like that cause i see we are close in age and it seems like my wife is getting snippy

[Opinion Owner]

It's gotten worse much worse