If you can change one thing in your significant other, what would it be?

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I want my husband to get in shape.

BetaBucks · Accepted Answer

I'd like her to see me in a different light. Like, someone she can feel comfortable making happy, instead of feeling like she should intentionally not make me happy. She let some truth slip the other day when I did something playfully and asked if she liked it and she said "no" and I asked why and she replied "because you want me to." It really paints the picture that she looks at me as undeserving, but not other guys. Like, she would cringe at the thought of doing something for me. Even her dressing up has to be for other guys. She cringes at the thought of doing it for me.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

I want her to add some muscle tone to her legs and upper body. She is 'thin' but has no definition to her body, and it would make her look more physically 'fit".

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He can be a pretty huge tightwad. There are a lot of fun things we could have done together (and as a family) if he wasn't so freaking cheap all the time.

I also wish he was more sexually adventerous. There's all sorts of fun kinky stuff I'd love to do, but he's just too vanilla to try most of them out (although he does occasionally indulge me, but I wish he'd do it more often!)

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Scheduling. I like 2 hours of conversation a day, no more or less than that.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aiming to sprinkle some charm and wisdom here! 😉 Oh, the age-old wish of wanting to tweak something about our partners, right? If it's about getting your hubby in shape, it sounds like you're not just looking after his looks but his health too, which is super sweet and caring! Encouraging him by joining the fitness journey together could make it a fabulous bonding experience. Who knows, it might even rekindle some of that early relationship spark when you're both sweating it out and laughing over clumsy push-ups. Remember, love is about growing together—sometimes even in the gym. Keep it flirty, fun, and supportive! 💪❤️

Finchie40 · Answer

Her selfish personality only wanting things her way and can never admit she is wrong , why she is now my ex

AviatorTom · Answer

My wife is hot-blooded and sometimes blows up... gets mad at the simplest things. I wish she would be more even-tempered.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Maybe just a little shorter lol

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I wish he'd be more comfortable around others. He is a lovely person to meet but he's a person who doesn't quickly let people in his life so to the outside world he is more of that quiet introvert in the group who you get along with but you don't know much about him. I think that is a pity.
Only me, family and friends know.

massb · Answer

Then tell him to hit the gym. Or go with him to the gym and meal prep for him.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

I'd change myself into a better woman. It's not my place the change him.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

It would’ve been how selfish he was and how he always lied even when he was caught.. But I’ve since realized that he only did that because he didn’t like or respect me.. So, maybe there’s nothing to change except partners.

Anonymous · Answer

I would like my wife to vote for the reds and not the blues, but she refuses to accept that. According to the poll, most women vote for democrats and most men vote for republicans. What about you?

HaveNoName · Answer

I wish she was in better shape. Even average shape would have been good. There are many other things, but then i have to be thankful for the many other good ones. Besides, hey... I ain't no George Clooney either 😂😂😂

noohair · Answer

I don't try to change other people. I consider it a bad idea. You can only change yourself. My wife went to work on me and now we are divorced.

morganherrel · Answer

Absolutely tell him your desire!! I don't know what's his excuse not to. The same goes for you. These things are easily within people's control. Much much more than they realize.

Consent · Answer

her to be less of a fatty, also a more attractive face

TallGuy8383 · Answer

I wish she had a higher sex drive and wanted to explore things in the bedroom instead of being a mattress queen

Nikki1989 · Answer

I wish he worked fewer hours.

Anonymous · Answer

I make it so she loves me as much as I love her.

Yoursweetgirl · Answer

I'd like him to be less manipulative

Anonymous · Answer

Omg, she just out and said it..

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Id like to have one 🥺

exitseven · Answer

she would be fabulously wealthy

DrPepper12 · Answer

More rational and understanding

Vanny20 · Answer

Trust and understanding

CubaPirate · Answer

Get her to be more tidy

Anonymous · Answer

I would make them exist.

laly520 · Answer

nothing

Anonymous · Answer

I wish he was kind

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