How to find a husband?

[Anonymous]

So I was homeschooled my whole life so I couldn’t find any connections from that 😅

I’m still young but I want to find a husband before I’m 30 but I have no clue where to look. I have been hit on by a couple of guys but I feel like they usually aren’t “husband” material for me at least.

My standards are -

Must be a Christian (like myself), Must be a virgin (like myself), must be a student in university or have stable income (enough to support me and him and our future children so considering where I live around 50k-70k) And for personality I’ve always wanted a sweet, kind loyal man. For age around 21-30 is where I’m okay with. And for looks it really doesn’t matter to me though I am white so I prefer white guys.

Any idea where I can find a man like that? 😅

[RavVid]

Your question made me feel sad. I've known a few women who just had the small ambition of building a family and being a good wife and mother but it has escaped them. I do think that is tragic.

The overwhelming problem you have is that 50% of women divorce their husbands by 8 years. By a decade it is 60%. Courts give the wives most of the family assets so any sensible man is reluctant to sign up and more inclined to buy the milk not the cow.

That is quite a big one and you should be receptive to prenups. Better still if you give thought to what would be a fair prenup. If I, as a man, ask for a prenup, then it could seen as duress and if there has been duress the prenup is unconscionable and therefore invalid. If a girl came with a prenup, it would reduce my reluctance to marry.

It is not so much finding a man but meeting men's mate selection criteria. They are not the same as female mate selection criteria. Basically being a happy, appreciative and genuinely nice girl will get you most of the way.

In terms of meeting men, well they are everywhere and meeting men's mate selection criteria will get attention. Be friendly and willing to interact. If on dating apps you say you are virgin and no sex before marriage most of the 'buy the milk' guys will self eliminate.

Genuinely wishing you good luck.

[AviatorTom]

The simplest answer is...

But seriously, you have very specific criteria that few men will satisfy. Would you be wiling to compromise on some of your requirements?

You might want to try visiting a Christian University.

[RavVid]

They can be just hired. No need to buy.

https://hireahubby.com.au/

[AI Opinion]

As your friendly relationship guru here on Girls Ask Guys, let's dive in! 😄 Finding hubby material can be like searching for treasure, right? Think about joining community events, church gatherings, or volunteering; places with like-minded souls. Also, don't shy away from online dating platforms catering to your preferences. Just remember, love can strike where you least expect it! Stay open, adventurous, and hey, enjoy the journey of love without too much pressure. Love finds you when you're not looking too hard! 😘

[slatyb]

You could try church, if you are slender. But be warned that there are three single women in church for every two single men, so you will have a lot of competition. Otherwise as years pass you are going to find it harder and harder to find a virgin man. You might have to give up that requirement.

[Ariesman81]

Construction job sites. Bring iced tea, a sundress and a smile and you'll have your pick of the litter.

[Anonymous]

And here we go with the walking checklist