Has Anyone Ever Told You They Love You, But You Didn't Love Them? What Didn't You Say To Them?

[sage2021]

This would be like someone you've been seeing for a while.

[Lliam]

My first girlfriend in high school did. At first I kind of ignored it, but she persisted so I finally said it back.
I liked her a lot and we were infatuated, but I thought "love" was jumping the gun. To me, love was akin to wanting to get married and spend our lives together. I was no way ready for that. We were still kids.

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, Sage.

[sage2021]

@Lliam
You're Welcome!!

[molonski2]

Has happened more times than I like to remember, I just hesitate and change the topic..

[Finchie40]

A few times from girls’ that were pretty much obsessed with me , that wanted to be with me but unfortunately I didn’t feel the same way about her , they weren’t my type and I only considered them a friend or an acquaintance, I know rejection is tough for a lot of people, so I try not to be rude about it and reject them in a respectful way , but when she doesn’t take No for an answer than that’s where I might start getting upset with her and start being disrespectful for the simple Fact that she doesn’t know what No means. The one girl I had to call the cops on eventually because she was stalking me and following me around and would just show up to places I was at , acting like it was a coincidence, I caught onto her shit quick , and told her she is wasting her time , and that I just liked her as a friend and nothing more , but she didn’t care , so I then said I am seeing someone , even though I wasn’t at the time just to get her off my back. But that didn’t stop her she was leaving me letters in my mailbox and on my car. The girl was nuts. So I finally called the cops and reported her for harassment , then she disappeared

[Rei13]

One of my exes told me he loved me early on and ended up resenting me for not saying it back. It got bad enough that in later relationships if someone said it to me I said it back to avoid it even if I didn’t mean it yet

[Zack-Bann]

Twice so far


First time I felt so pressured because after she said it she started tearing up
So I said it back because I didn’t wanna lose her
Huge mistake.
Took me months to work up the courage to break up with her and even then it was hard


Second time i had learned my lesson.
So I didn’t say it back.
She asked me how I felt about it so I told her:
“Look I’m more than flattered and I do care about you, but I don’t wanna lead you on by professing a love I don’t feel yet. I’ll be sure to tell you when that changes”


She was ok with it but demanded I give her two more orgasms in exchange for not answering
(I made it three)

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, this girl in high school named, Janis. She was madly in love with me and would chase me through the halls between classes. She was kinda chubby, had long red scraggly hair and a voice that could peel paint, not very pretty and was only about 4' tall! I was 6' 1" at the time and, the time she DID catch me in the hall, she hugged me and her head was just above my waist.

[AgentG111]

Oh damn yeah I've actually had this happen at a younger age.

Polite statement was she was an amazing lady and fantastic lover. I fell in love with what we she was to me.

She didn't feel the same. Last about 3 months.

She is still at the top 10 list of lovers.

[NoDecision]

Never had anyone ever tell me that before. I would have shit my drawers if someone did. 😂🤣😯

[virgo2267]

Consider yourself lucky

[djmzes]

Love... define it

I love my parent I love my wife, I love my job...

All love are different.

She may say it but what kind of love she means is important. And nowadays everyone just love anything for no reason

[Vegasrunner]

That happens all the time. I usually just change the subject. It's better to have a woman like you than love you.

[Anonymous]

Not in that exact words, but something like that. I told her we can be friends.

[exitseven]

No but one time I told a girl I loved her and she said "You're Crazy!"

[Khlifi]

I tried to be nice but didn't expect me to turn it down

[Likes2drive]

No it’s usually the other way around

[guesswhereivebeen]

I said that’s nice

[Rosemaiden]

I love my crush

[Cheerfull009]

I judge, how other person is serious