If you are a person who likes to have short term relationships what is the time frame of that in terms of days, weeks or months?

[thegreenyogi]

[Zack-Bann]

I was never someone who “choses” short relationships
But it does usually end up going that way


Between one and three months


I learned that if I have no intention of building a long lasting relationship I’m better off keeping it casual for like a week and that’s it

[thegreenyogi]

Interesting!

[mysteriousNicholas]

Lol at 27, how many women have you burned through? Amicably I'm sure

[Zack-Bann]

Did say do something to offend you nick?

Because this isn’t the first time you reply on my comment with some passive aggressive rhetoric

And both times you weren’t the person asking the question so clearly you’re choosing to get involved

And I’ve seen your comments all over the app. You’re not as mysterious as your name suggests.

So let’s have it. What’s your problem?

[mysteriousNicholas]

No problem. A question was all. But on the plus side good stranger, it's Friday - let's all have peace and tranquility. Happy Friday, good kind sir. Or if you prefer not to hear or see, please hit that block button. Kind day to you and you have a good weekend please.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Good day, sir. Good day 🎩

[mysteriousNicholas]

Kindly toned. Always, kindly in tone. No sarcasm. No attitude. Just kind , is me.

[Spencer10]

OK I want to be clear. At this time I am not relationship ready. I am always upfront with women about this. So the time varies that I spend with women. Sometimes a night or it builds into a friendship and is on going.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Spencer10 you ever heard of or chatted with guy friends or friends of friends or Gal's if they've said "well me and my Ex agreed it was never for the long term, like a pre-agreed relationship that would only be long term, yet not wedding ring permanent 💍 💯" lol. Months to years - probably a handful of years right? I figured when I saw in my 20s women my age usually travelling excessively - while I was working or studying - with a boyfriend in the photos in two, surely them strangers or public folks on the likes of Instagram - or YouTube - usually did so "for relationships of convenience - she gets a bodyguard to travel around the world with and cuddle up to at night, he gets a hot broad on his arms and a travel buddy to boot" - life's peachy 🍑 lol 😆

[mysteriousNicholas]

Memories 👀🤭 I look back on now. Lol 😆 sure, I often saw other people living it up in their early 20s when I was early 20s - but some of us have better or other things to do - work,. study - we can't all be goofing off 😀

[AI Opinion]

Hey there! It's Brad, the relationship coach extraordinaire, giving you the scoop on short-term relationships. 😎 Generally, these flings can last a few weeks to a couple of months, but it's all about the connection and the fun, right? Just keep an eye out for any red flags, and make sure both parties are on the same page to keep it exciting yet drama-free! Enjoy the ride, lovebird! 🕊️✨

[Anonymous]

I have never looked at it as how long will it be. When you kiss a boy in middle school that could be the entire relationship. I mostly had friends with benefits and I might see someone every night or once every few months or anything in between, and it just goes on until we stop. Sometimes a guy will get a girlfriend and then just call me for sex once in awhile and that's fine because I can go to another guy for sex if I want it. It's only when I get a boyfriend myself that I care how long it goes on.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@thegreenyogi I'd preferably like just one short term relationship 👍😀 in this lifetime at least, if we're gonna talk the topic here.

Personally though I'm content as I'm as I'm. That said, for this daydream, I'll say an agreed with woman, hypothetical, a few months to a few years. Preferably a woman who's 20 to 25, maybe 27 if I'm pushing it. Lol. lol. 🤭 Anyways.

Nope - a ring and offspring and a debt the size of the Mountain 🏔️ never appealed to me - no offence Holywood folk 🎥 🎥 📽️ some folks want marriage and a picker fence - some just want to work 👍or devote life to studies / Master's / 📜

[mysteriousNicholas]

@thegreenyogi how'd I do? So basically a few months to 3 years or so. 🤭👀☯️ If I had to daydream of an ideal woman - no yogi, not hitting on you, don't flirt with me lol 😆😆😆 either lol 😆😆

[mysteriousNicholas]

@thegreenyogi if a woman has already slept around, or if I had slept around, then it's just vomit worthy disease 🪰🦟 🤢 you know. There's having an agreed short term or 1 relationship - with exceptions of divorce or other - I think it sucks to risk germs from sleeping with more than 1 🤭 ever.

[OneViewpoint]

The time frame will be dependent on the two people involved and their situations. They may be aligned or they may have very different goals for the short term relationship and very different constraints they are dealing with. It could be one night, 3 weeks, 3 months, or a year. It depends on negotiating something both can live with. It ends when one wants to or needs to move on. Or maybe it never ends if they both decide they want to make it a permanent thing.

[AvaRay]

I don’t measure connections in days, weeks, or months, I measure them in depth..

Some people can spend years together n still stay shallow..

Others can meet for a moment n leave an impact that lasts a lifetime..

It’s never about the duration, it’s about the intensity, alignment, n truth in it..

[MisterPandemonium]

I mean, it can be a one-time hangout sort of thing, or it can be like a weekend thing, or a summer thing. But maybe those don't count as relationships.

If you want your relationship to have an expiration date, maybe you just don't like relationships generally, and you want to enjoy someone's company for a while and then leave before it turns into a real relationship.

[Natasha1995]

That has never been my intention. My first 'relationship', if I can call it that, lasted about 3 months. My second, including marriage, 7 years now.

[NordicInScandinavia]

It used to be a couple of weeks - a couple of months. (Not because I particularly liked it).

[Shiprex]

I prefer longer term but short term would be fun if women were easier to get along with.

[Anonymous]

I have had several short term relationships, but I don't want short term relationships. I was always looking for a life-long one.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Riddle me this?, gentle man of culture - emphasis - 👀 - did you or the women (each girlfriend by girlfriend you had, over time) - was there ever a hinted or agreed ☕ date or convo of "... say... this relationship, this thing... let's enjoy it, without it being anything that leads to a ring... short to long is one thing... but no ring" - no rings. Cool?
No convos or hinted convos ever like that ☯️

[mysteriousNicholas]

Surely you catch my drift - lol l. Like I wrote elsewhere here no spammer - I'm 32 almost and I saw me folks on socials in my 20s, and fairly enough, no jelly here, enjoying their time and often they didn't last, maybe they lasted 1-3 years, break up, rinse repeat. Sometimes I just wondered. 💍 Other folks like me would just be single or partly on socials. Others you'd see as the long terms who do get married like long time sweethearts 🧁 just one of those mysteries

[mysteriousNicholas]

Or actually were actual sweethearts - "one and done" as they'd say in baking 🧁🍰

[Opinion Owner]

@mysteriousNicholas What?

[mysteriousNicholas]

Lol where do I recap? Bro all I'm humbly and cheerfully asking is did any of the women you had "short term relationships with" - did any of them over a first couple of dates ever day upfront "I'm not looking for a husband - but I do want a boyfriend - at least for a while". But not a husband ring 💍 aka not a long term but not a one date 🌹 rose either. You catch my drift now man? Lol 😂 happy Friday son

[Opinion Owner]

@mysteriousNicholas Why didn't you just ask that? The answer is no.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Sorry buddy 😐 genuinely 😄 thank you though for the answer. Hmmm. Thanks

[Anonymous]

If I would ever have a relationship, I'd like to have a long term relationship.

[msc545]

At least two hours.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@msc545 that explains the squeak 👀 or the creak - knew my headphones were working here hahahaha what headphones 👀👁️

[mysteriousNicholas]

@msc545 lol 😂 my poor taste in psychic joke 🔮 cue the riddle music from twilight zone voodoo voodoo voodoo 🎶🎶

[mysteriousNicholas]

🎹 love that old twilight zone theme 👀