Why am I attracted to older women?

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When I see an attractive woman who could be my mother, I feel like I want to have a relationship with her and cuddle with her and want her to treat me as her son. Can you explain the psychology of this?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It could be a number of reasons why , only you can really understand why when I was a kid , I was molested by an older women and even though I was being molested , I enjoyed it , so I always had a thing for older women as well as girls’ my age or
Younger , I never really held age as a deciding factor when it came to me meeting a beautiful female as long as she was legal age of consent is all that matters to me, At my age now , I am now preferring younger girls’ over older because I was married to an older giril for 20 years and unfortunately bout marriage turned to shit , so now I am leaning towards younger girls’ and it seems younger girls’ prefer older guys’ these days , so one you get to my age , you might want younger girls’ instead as well

exitseven · Accepted Answer

Some older women can be hot. When I was younger there was an older woman that worked for one of the companies that I did business with. It was not that she was really beautiful, but she was attractive. It was just the way she carried herself and her attitudes. I was married and there is no way I would , ever cheat but I was really attracted to her and I think she liked me too.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

So, you want to know why the way you are, as a stranger, and an anon…. mhmm @hollyk21

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, the allure of wisdom and experience! 😉 It's actually quite common to be attracted to older women, and psychology suggests a few reasons. It might be the nurturing vibe they give off, the confidence they exude, or the desire for a motherly figure in your life. Plus, those life stories and maturity can be pretty captivating. Remember, love doesn't follow a rulebook. Go with what feels right for you, and embrace those feelings! 🥰

Anonymous · Answer

The mother angle shoulds a bit Norman Bates-y  I favour older women myself because they have experience in all departments, more money and are less liberal

Iron_Man · Answer

Because you think about she’s gonna take care of you and support you

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure, are you a gerontophile?

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