What would you guys suggest. I can take whatever?

[bbhhgirl]

I have been on and off dating this man for three years now. We no have a 6 month old and I am pregnant again and wanted to get an abortion but he is so against it. Me and this man can not get along to save our lives and since I have been pregnant I have neglected any appointments or anything stressed and depressed no appetite.

[lightbulb27]

That's a mess and I don't know what you are asking. I don't enjoy this kind of stress and I'm thankful my wife and I don't have it. We could have it, no family is perfect, but we handle all stressors well now, communicate, laugh, move. I suggest that is where you want to be. As it is, you are both torturing your unborn child. So stop it and find something else to put your mind on, breathe, be thankful.

If I was counseling you as couple, and I'm not a therapist, I'd ask how well you sleep. Thats the first thing I'd solve. If it involves making you both shut up and be nice to each other, I'd prescrib that pill... shut up and be nice therapy! Next question is how did you get here.

The answers lie in your childhoods probably.

You want random people on the internet whom are probably a lot more experienced than you, to tell you want to do, after sharing only a few distressing words? These are important life and death decisions that you both already made. This IS what life is about... life.

[bowenw]

Your body your choice regardless of what he wants. He sounds toxic and you should not be seeing him for any reason.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[bbhhgirl]

Mho?

[bowenw]

Most Helpful Opinion

[bbhhgirl]

Yes absolutely everybody else pretty much made me feel bad lol

[bowenw]

I'm sorry to hear that. I wish you all the best.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on GAG, I've seen how relationships can be a rollercoaster. Your well-being and your children's future are so important here. Having open communication with your partner about your needs and feelings is key, even when it's tough. Seeking support from family, friends, or a professional might really help lighten the load and find a peaceful path forward. Hang in there, you're doing great! 😊

[slatyb]

It doesn't matter if he is against it. You are the one who has to carry it and raise it.

[In_Trance]

If you have one child and you're pregnant again you must have got along at least twice. How did you get to those points in your relationship?
Whatever it was do that again