For a year l have been free from my child’s father. He wasn’t good to me and treated me like crap and was very manipulative and abusive. Now, I wasn’t perfect but I also wasn’t any of those things to him either. Long story short, I finally chose myself and my son a year ago and left him. I went no contact, even when he attempted to get back in contact with me. I’m happier, healthier, healed and still healing. I have purpose now for myself and my son and things have been good but we have mutual friends and word got back to me through social media that he’s been posted up on social media with a new girl. She isn’t new, contrary to belief. He messed around with her while we had our thing going and prior to us even being an item. He swore to me it was nothing. She was a close “friend” and that he was “single” and I believed him. Now she’s back in the picture which doesn’t surprise me. They’re so much alike it’s crazy. They’re vibe and energy just go hand and hand. Even though I know he isn’t a catch and the outcome with her probably won’t be much different. The softer side of me feels a ting of jealousy because I haven’t moved on yet and found “the one” but he’s doing just fine in that department. Although I’m not quit looking and feel it’s best to be single and focus on being a mom. It’s only human to want what you see others have I guess, especially those you feel don’t deserve it.
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What advice do you guys have for me?
