I need advice about this guy?

Question

We're both in college, he's graduating in spring and I will follow suit a semester after him. We are president (me) & VP (him) of a club on campus where we see each other often and work together closely. Especially within the past few months we've been spending even more time together, opening up/sharing more personal details about our lives, morals, future plans. We spend time one on one and the conversation flows freely. I think we have a mutual understanding that we can talk about anything/nothing is off limits. Whether its random stories about our day, where we see ourselves in the future, or our political/religious views. We sometimes tease/joke with each other but I don't know if its true flirting. He always walks with me to my car in the dark, we usually talk some more and he always hugs me goodbye. He also opens every door for me and thanks me for spending time with him. He has come to my music concerts and has met my family/gets along with them really well. I know he is single and he doesn't know what his future holds - if/where he'll go to grad school or where he'll work. I don't want to loose what we have but I want to know if he sees the possibility of a relationship with me. I feel so comfortable with him that I feel like if I told him my feelings he would be super kind and respectful no matter what he felt. How do I go about telling him, and when should I do so (like now, wait until winter break, or wait until spring)? Thanks for the advice!

Amy10223 · Accepted Answer

How long have you both known one another? He seems to like you. However, he's either from another culture in which dating/courtship is slow to develop, or he's shy and doesn't know how you feel about being exclusive. Ask him what his intentions are, with or without you in his future, or ask him how he feels about you.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

If this seems like something you want to pursue. You never know what will happen or where this will go. Unless you try.

I think you know you can talk about anything so be open and honest about how you feel for him and see if he wants to go on a date just to see what happens.

summiter · Accepted Answer

You will not know till you try. You may have to make the first move. What do you want out of your "friendship" with him. Do you think he is just a nervous virgin perhaps?