Guys (and girls), did you ever hit a girl?

[melssvdv]

I hit my husband once out of anger (should have controlled myself). He hit me back. I zigzagged back to the kitchen.

Shouldn't have hit my husband for nothing... I deserved it.

[Hellraiser1984]

I had a therapist who wanted a sexual relationship. She tried all kinds of mind games and flirting and physical things to get me to do it with her. I thought hey maybe she really likes me. I fell for it. I never had sex with her but I kissed her a few times. she tried coming to apartment once. But one day I came to get my meds from her office. i catch her walking out with her who I find out later was her fiance. I sucked it up and went to the next appointment and I got pissed off. My emotions were all over the place. I felt used and lied to. I told her all this stuff about me and she lied to me the whole time. So I lost it and knocked some stuff off her desk and yelled at her. I really wanted to hit her but I didn't. She hurt me deep. And later I attempted suicide twice because of her. I slit my wrists but I didn't cut deep enough so I tried drowning myself. Never get into a relationship with a therapist. I never knew what happened to her after I reported her, but I will always hate her. I've never attempted dating since and that was 5 years ago. I may never try dating again.

[WonderingManII]

I tapped a girl on the head with a recorder instrument.

[melssvdv]

XD Very nice

[WonderingManII]

5th grade. she was making fun of me.

[Vesuvius87]

Neither of you should've been hitting each other. Both are in the wrong since it was in real legitimate self-defense. You did it out of anger and he did it out of retaliation, which is still done in anger. Basically two wrongs don't make a right.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend's and I used to fight like cats and dogs hitting each other and of course both called police on each other and made up false allegations. So different with my husband, half the time he's just oblivious to me being a bitch.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to help you build healthy connections and understand behaviors, I want to highlight the importance of non-violent communication. It's crucial to find constructive ways to express emotions in relationships. No one deserves to be hit, and it’s important to address anger and conflict through communication or seeking professional help if needed. Remember, love should never hurt! 💔

[melssvdv]

Oh shut up AI!

[Summeroflove]

Well. Yes….. but not romantic partners. But if you knew my position. You would understand lol

[CalmUntilAbused]

Nah, I don't think so. I never got close enough to one to have such an opportunity - and if I ever got close enough to one, she would be of the variety who would never give me a reason to do it, except maybe in the context of intimacy - I wouldn't take the latter opportunity, though. I'm not into harming those I care about. I crushed one (a feminist) with logic, though. Does that count?

[melssvdv]

I do not think you can beat feminists with logic. Because they will go back to reading mainstream media, clicking one of the thousands of articles with 'science proven' girl power news sending a subtle message of 'women are superior' and then tell you you are wrong because sources say women are better at x, y, etc. at everything.

Maybe you would ask how I know that?
Experience. I was one back then.

The only way to bring us women back to 'factory default' or 'real woman' is to get rid of mainstream media I guess XD

[CalmUntilAbused]

@melssvdv Okay, I stand corrected... 🤣

I shut one up with logic until she got back to the mainstream media. For a few precious minutes in the classroom, though, she could only sling insults at me, since no actual arguments came to her mind! 😄

[Orion84]

I have never had a reason to hit a woman, no, and so I never have.

That's not to say that I wouldn't defend myself from a woman, if necessary, using the appropriate amount of force. Fortunately, I've never found myself in a situation where I've had to do so.

[DonaldDarko]

No, never was in a situation like that. I've been told a man shouldn't hit a woman. Maybe I should use something impersonal like pepper spray on her that way I never put my hands on her at all.

[melssvdv]

How would you react if you saw a man hitting a woman who hit him first?

[DonaldDarko]

I watch videos like that for laughs. Any man who's dealt with various Karens over the years likes those videos.

[RandomGirl42]

I have 4 older sisters. We are very close but oh yes, once in awhile we would have a good ole fashion bar room brawl. 🤣

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah, sadly i did it couple of times because i was provoked to the max but i have learned other way to punish someone without physical violence, plus i have more control over my temper now, i'm never like i used to be in my 20's

[NathanDavis]

not, not even close...

and those few... they did walk straight onto my elbow, I was stationary... while they were approaching forward impetuously and already moody too... lmao

[bowenw]

I may have in kindergarten, but I don't think ever since.

[Anonymous]

My husband has never hit me and I've hit him before

[melssvdv]

Accidentally?

[BarryLiverstone]

No, I’ve never hit a girl.

[Dantezam]

No, of course I haven't.