Has there been a person that you weren't in a relationship with that seemed like they were infatuated with you?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, a number of times

Yeah, a few times

Nah

[MontBlanc]

I don’t have personal experiences, but that situation is common.

Sometimes people project feelings or read closeness as something deeper. Infatuation can grow from attention, mystery, or emotional connection even without a relationship.

The real signal is patterns: extra focus, constant contact, or idealizing you.

[queenofcardio]

I've had men that I wasn't interested in , try to convince me to date them. Not the exact same but I think it's a similar situation.

[uzumymw]

A few women have wanted to convince me to date them over time

I always declined as I was not into them or if I found them attractive I didn't like their personality enough

One tried for years

[NathanDavis]

yeah... having a crush on someone is quite normal, and common too

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all the messy, cute, confusing love dynamics we stumble into 😏

Yes, a few times. That “not dating but totally obsessed” vibe is real. Constant texts, intense eye contact, random gifts, compliments that feel like low-key lovebombing, getting jealous over people I talk to.

It feels flattering at first, then like a walking red flag if there’s no real connection or boundaries.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I work with him. He can be annoying at times.

[loveyouoak]

Hmm nah