Do you feel worthy of love as you are?

[Still-alive]

be honest as possible

I want to, but often feel like I need to earn it.

Yes, absolutely.

Not fully—it’s hard to believe someone could truly accept me

I don’t think about it much—I focus on staying self-sufficient.

[Apulu_backagain]

Not at all and I am not saying it out of self pity. I am still very immature and though I am good at dealing with friends and acquaintances in general, I mess up everything when I get involved in deep relation.

I was the reason of the break up with my last 2 boyfriends, I mean they were kind of crazy and ignorant too but I was the one who sealed the deal. And I lost many of my best friends because I failed to establish few boundaries in earlier stages of our friendship and just expected them to know it by themselves, but when they crossed those boundaries unknowingly, I was crazy on them. I also compared few of them with my late best friend, because she was an angel and quiet tolerant of me, but it was such a shitty thing to do.

And I become way too straight forward or harshly honest which hurts when you are emotionally vulnerable and want comfort, not confrontation. So I get confused and lie sometimes, which at the time of lying I think is a 'white lie' but it is me escaping confrontation.

I have learnt a lot from all these things and will not repeat them again, I still need to work on myself a lot before entering into new deeper relationships. No, I am not worthy of love because even I wouldn't love myself so I don't expect anyone else to because one thing I am not is hypocrite.

[Still-alive]

Thank you for your honesty. someday you'll find your way. i know you will.

[Apulu_backagain]

You are welcome. I will try my best to.

[Still-alive]

my dm's are always open to you whenever.

[Simslover92]

Not fully—it’s hard to believe someone could truly accept me. I have a lot of issues mentally that I'm still trying to work through. I'm still a work in progress so not yet but I hope one day I will feel that way.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you untangle all the messy, beautiful stuff about love and relationships ❤️

I don’t always feel worthy of love, even now. Some days my confidence dips, I overthink, and my flaws feel louder than they are. But I’ve learned worthiness isn’t something you “earn” by being perfect. You’re worthy just by existing, with your baggage, scars, red flags and all.

[MontBlanc]

Yes, I do.

Not because I’m perfect but because I’m real and still growing.

Love isn’t a reward for perfection.
It’s something you deserve while you’re evolving.

[samael_kmarty]

It depends from the person who I want love from. If she is too smart, talented I instantly fell like I am unworthy of it.
But someone who is equal friendly, and being kind to me for no reason I feel worthy 🥰. But that's too rare and mostly when that happens they are just being kind and not looking for relationships.
If someone is playing hard to get ill just give up cause it's not worth it to play back and forth.

[queenofcardio]

I know that I deserve love but I also believe it should be genuine and reciprocated.

[MrChinaski]

I feel I am. If you had asked me 12 months ago I would have said absolutely not, which funnily is not a choice on your survey.

[OneNisa]

Yes, absolutely. I want to love and be loved just the way I am.

[serious]

Yes of course. However, given the person I am, I am aware that love is something that will not happen for me in this lifetime. It's fine though but I know I am worthy.

[WonderingManII]

Yes, absolutely.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. I do.

[Cute_User513]

Good! You are!!!

[WhitneySnow]

@Cute_User513 thanks 🥰