Be honest, do you think you deserve to be loved?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There is a difference between "deserving" love in general and being "owed" love from a particular person. I don't think a person deserves to be loved by a specific individual because of any assortment of qualities or traits that qualifies them, but the person does deserve to find love and be loved by a partner.

You can think of it as its inverse as well; nobody deserves to be totally alienated, live and die alone, hated by everyone.

The only people who owe us love are our parents. That I do believe, as both a child and a parent, is actually owed. Which makes it all the more bitter and hurtful if you don't get it. It creates an actual debt.

Deserving does not mean getting, either. We all deserve to be born healthy too and we don't all get that either. It's important to understand that. Bottom line, is the world isn't fair. And some great and deserving people may never find a healthy love (and there might be a myriad of reasons for that ranging from their own preferences, to not being open, to sheer dumb luck). Unfortunately in this day and era most interactions between people today are very surface level and defensive, making it difficult to run into the people, who will love you. People can't love the real you if they never get the chance to see it. But at the end of the day I believe everyone deserves to find love.

RandomGirl42 · Accepted Answer

I believe we are love from love of love. Love is everything. And no, I'm not one of those airy, astrology, flower girls. (Well, not entirely 🤣) Love is vibration. We're all energy. I know, I just get too philosophical sometimes. 😳

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I don’t think it’s something that’s “deserved”
It’s not a right or a mandatory privilege

And I do think parts of me are lovable

But overall, until now, I haven’t been fully loved by another person that wasn’t an immediate family member

Maybe I am unlovable.
That remains to be seen.
I don’t let it get to me.

elTAHAwy · Accepted Answer

I think everyone would think they deserve to be loved and they are true everyone deserves to be loved by someone his mother father family brothers sisters and of course his wife or husband or girlfriend, Is there any one born that doesn't deserve to be loved

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a dedicated relationship coach, my goal is to help you embrace and recognize your own worth. We all deserve love, but it's also important to recognize that love starts with self-acceptance. If you're having doubts, it's a sign to invest in yourself! Falling in love with who you are can lead to healthier relationships. Trust me, it's not just about being loved; it's about loving yourself enough to accept that you deserve it! 😎❤️

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I believe I warrant love and deserve respect and kindness.

Someone34 · Answer

In my country its a question of who can and can not. I vote for a party in Sweden called the Swedendemocrats, most young women, I think 80-85 %, dont want them in Goverment. This is because they think they are nazis, which they arnt, its the same saga as across all of the western world.

You have a gigantic migration with no integration demands, weak laws etc. This creates a lot of problems and when someone calls this out they are nazis by 95 % of "news" media. Which obviously is very biased and leftleaning.

Me as a 32 yearold male can't have a relationship because of this, I can't be loved. ;P
Unless I want to lie about who I am, my feelings and opinions.

You see when there is 80-85 % of young women who think you are a nazi, it leaves 15-20 % of women left to choose from. Most of these women already have a boyfriend in my guess as they often are intelligent, arnt addicted to social media and have good qualites as persons.

Lets say you have 5 % left then, you have to divide that again, cause you won't fit everyone personalitywise. You would be down to 2 % maybe.

No person, man or women goes around hoping they will meet someone in a society like that. The odds are stacked very high against you. Plus there are about 70 % of young men who vote right so there is also a lot of competition.

But it dosent matter now, I decided to move to my second homecountry Poland. There its common sense to not destroy your own country and the addiction to social media is way way way lower then in Sweden. No man wants to be with a girl that is addicted to her cellphone and herself in the process.

Who would find that interesting?

virgo2267 · Answer

Loved absolutely, but no love is more important than from your own children…

Deserved to be “Liked?” Nah, and wouldn’t want that either..

More like “deserve to enjoy life” while it passes us by so quickly resonates with my credo

Guanfei · Answer

Yes, I do. Despite being stupid, and boring, and awkward, I'm not a bad person, and I would genuinely dedicate my life to making my partner happy. I'm not submissive and I wouldn't bow down to everything, but I'll do the efforts.
Many that are loved, men or women, wouldn't even do that.

aceleon · Answer

i think there is no such thing as deserving love, i think there is such a thing as not deserving love. as long as you are not a scum/bitch you should deserve love.

RavVid · Answer

I think, thinking that you deserve to be loved. It seems to common female thinking that she deserves to be loved. It is earn't not deserved.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Deserves is the wrong word, but everyone is entitled to that chance. You just have to earn it first.

jshm2 · Answer

No one deserves anything.  But people who put in the effort, should get what they deserve.

Labokachulaa · Answer

Yes of course, I believe that everyone deserves to be loved.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

I think I'm happier single and less stressful to be only looking out for me lol

Dargil · Answer

Take me or leave me. If you leave me,  leave me.

genericname85 · Answer

I Don't think anyone "deserves" anything. To me that sounds like entitlement.

Richardjd · Answer

Everyone deserves love but it's difficult if you are like me and hate yourself but who knows what the future brings

Shy_Steve · Answer

If I said yes would Women find me more attractive? No So my answer is irrelevant just like your question.

Nerdvana · Answer

Yes, everyone deserves to be loved and give love.

Cidknee · Answer

I may actually deserve to but think that I don't mist if the time.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

I am what I am. I don't think love responds to logic.

qwerty2469 · Answer

Lolhell no. But im a narcissistic psychopath. Deserve means nothing to me.

MemeSupreme · Answer

i dont deserve anything

Anonymous · Answer

Very much so  And in relationships I need to constantly assert myself to get what I want

Dawnn13 · Answer

Yes, everyone deserves to feel love

Fireguy17 · Answer

everyone, animals included.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, no. And I’m okay with that lol

exitseven · Answer

Yes I am somebody who deserves to be loved

loveyouoak · Answer

I don't. I don't care about being loved.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not even sure what this means.

Jackblue · Answer

No, I deserve to be roasted over hot coals.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

EVERYONE DESERVES LOVE !!!

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, but I hope so.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Fuck yeah, I do

bunniesrcute · Answer

hell no, seems awful

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Nope.

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