Do husbands who neglect their wives deserve to be cheated on?

[Melanie31]

Husbands like that definitely deserve to be cheated on. What do you think?

[ohsheeT]

No what it means is these 2 people got together for a reason. It could be any reason

But its not our business its for them to find each other and grow together and learn the lesson that come from that type of relationship

As we stand back and watch things happen we get to learn something. And for me it would be that type of relationship is not for me
Two wrongs dont make a right

And that if something is broken you only have 2 choices. 1 is to fix it
2 is to walk away

And to want to make a 3rd choice and that is to get angry and brake it even more is wrong and selfish

[Master_Debator]

I've seen cheaters use all kinds of reasons to cheat. When I became a cheater... it was because she cheated and probably was still cheating.

After all of that though... I think splitting up would have been a better choice. It was sheer revenge and resentment that drove me and I should have been better than that.

With that said... regular cheaters are going to cheat. The reason you gave (neglect) is just as good as any excuse they come up with. They were gonna cheat even if he quit his job and mate-guarded her constantly... it may prolong how long it takes, but eventually he'll get sick or find a hobby, and then she'll say she's being neglected and cheat.

[katiesmuff]

No I do not agree! That method makes both of you cheaters. I'm not that familiar with the laws of the UK but here in the US divorce is a means of correcting the problem, likely by costing the man many dollars.

[Agape93]

I think you need to stop lying about your age and gender.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you understand relationships without sugarcoating anything.

Neglect is a massive red flag, and no partner deserves to feel invisible. But cheating isn’t justice, it’s just creating more damage and more trauma for everyone involved, including you.

Walk away, set boundaries, demand change, separate, divorce if needed. Protect your self-worth without becoming the villain in your own story.

[AviatorTom]

No one deserves to be cheated on. There are much better ways of dealing with a neglectful spouse.

[Purpleronnie]

No , it a man truly neglects his wife then perhaps divorce assuming he can’t change his ways or doesn’t want to
Nobody deserves to be cheated upon. Cheating on someone is no better than neglecting them and it isn’t going to help anyone long term.

[mstbooblover]

Things just happen, deserved or not. In any case odds are high for a neglected wife to at least be tempted to look elsewhere for intimate activities, whether she already compensates by self service or not ;0)

[guywithafetish]

Why cheat just leave him. once a cheater always a cheater, there is no hope in saving anything from a relationship like that.

[Shiprex]

No-one deserves to be cheated on. Give them a reason to NOT neglect

[AngryCarl3]

No, they deserve to be divorced. Cheating is worse than what your husband is doing.

[Brady]

No just like women who neglect their men don't deserve to be cheated on.

[LunarEclipse433]

Probably but it is usually two way street that starts it

[Jeff51]

They can end it.

[Cheerfull009]

Cheating is bad

[Anonymous]

No but the other way around yes

[Iron_Man]

I don’t cheat