What Makes You Irresistible as a Partner?

Question

If someone were to choose you as their life partner, what would be the reason they should?

What do you think is your best trait that makes you stand out in love or relationships?

# For me, I believe it’s the way I care deeply, listen with attention, and make the people I love feel truly seen, valued, and appreciated.

* I’d love to know, what about you?

LuciusTheOdd · Accepted Answer

I got a couple reasons.
1. I am a man of principal, And when it comes to my principles, I am stubborn and immovable, This could be seen as a bad thing, but once you get to know me and how my principles work, I become easy to predict, And you’ll know in what situations I can and cannot be trusted.

2. I am very family oriented, I will still absolutely have my own hobbies and want to do my own thing, but %90 of the time I am more than happy to bring you along, the other %10 My autistic ass is saying some Of the dumbest and craziest shit you will ever hear and you don’t wanna be there for that anyways.

3. I have a lot of hobbies and I know a lot of things, More than likely, there’s gonna be something we can do together because my hobbies are too diversified for their to not be, Also, if anything breaks 90% of the time, I’ll be able to fix it.

4. Because I am autistic, If a woman flirts with me, I will probably never know unless someone points it out, I know because the only times I’ve been aware somebody was flirting with me was either because someone pointed it out or because it was incredibly obvious to the point that even I could see it, And when I do recognize it, my first instinct is to friend zone them anyways so it’s not an issue. By the way, They would be lucky to have even gotten that far Because more often than not, I only acknowledge people as far as necessity and social obligation require, So if I didn’t acknowledge you beyond Simple requirement, you must have been really interesting and left an impression which is insanely rare, Because that’s only happened three times in the past two years, And two of those three times I completely ignored it and moved on with my life anyways.

5. I am very good at systems thinking, As a matter of fact, I would even say that I am unbelievably good at systems thinking, Which is probably why I always end up in leadership or advisory positions, Even though I would much rather do my own thing.

6. I hate when I make mistakes, If I make a mistake, and I know why I made that mistake I will never make that mistake again, because the lesson learned from every mistake, I make becomes deeply ingrained in my nature.

7. I am entertaining, You will never need reality television again, Because right in front of you will be one of the smartest people you could ever meet, But who also lives by the doctrine of “controlled stupidity” Basically, meaning they do some of the stupidest shit you could ever see, but they are painfully aware that it is stupid and they do it anyways, because they find it entertaining and it helps cure their perpetual boredom.

So to summarize I am loyal. I am useful and life would be too chaotic with me around for you to ever be bored.

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

I'm not delusional enough to think I'm "irresistible" to anyone , LOL. I think what women find attractive about me is...

I have an uncommon background and experience that people find interesting.
I'm reasonably intelligent.
I'm well educated and informed about the world.
I'm a reasonably stable mature personality.
My confidence in all aspects of life.
My dry brutal sense of humor.
I have boundaries and standards that I enforce without exceptions.
I dress better than most men.
I'm more fit than most men of any age.
I'm 6'2"
I have a high tolerance for risk. In business. In sports. In life as a whole.

On the flip side I have some traits that some women absolutely hate...

My introverted nature can make me seem aloof or arrogant to some people.
I can't be manipulated. I will cut you loose rather than allow you to control me.
I can seem cold and unapproachable because of my boundaries.
I don't chase. Play games and you'll be playing by yourself.
I have options. I don't settle.
I don't need a woman. I want one. But only the right one.

bobalife · Accepted Answer

Choosing him everyday, through the rain and sunshine, still love him and show him deep love...

enjoy listening to his thoughts, vulnerability, and whatever makes him happy or makes him for who is him...

bring some challenges & inspirations for him to grow, appreciate his efforts, and let him be a man to lead

the laughters filled the space and adventure wherever we go

the deep passion and dedication that sets the tone

my kindness, empathy, and warmth to his heart & soul

my honesty and openness to talk it through as a team even through rough times

finding ways to cheer and support his dreams, passion, and inspirations in life

In my arms, I welcome him with my warmth and peace when he needs it most

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

To be honest, I'm trying to figure that out. I know I am a very kind, giving person that tries my best to show compassion and love for others, but not sure if that makes me irresistible to a partner.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to make love, dating, and all that messy human stuff a little easier… and a lot more fun 😏

For me, it’s emotional safety with a flirty twist. I’m loyal, calm, and I communicate clearly, but I also hype my partner up, flirt like we just met, remember the tiny details, and show up consistently. No lovebombing, no ghosting, just steady, warm energy and genuine effort.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm definitely not irresistible, otherwise I'd have a partner who I want. That being said, I think I have a few good traits. It's just that no one really cares to hear you say good things about yourself, so I'll refrain from doing so today lol

AviatorTom · Answer

If I was irresistible, I wouldn't be on my second marriage.

MrHopper · Answer

For me, I think it’s my loyalty and the way I use humour. I’m the kind of partner who is always in your corner, but I’m also the one who knows exactly how to make you laugh when you’ve had a long day. I think that balance of being a consistent, reliable support while keeping the relationship fun and light is what makes me stand out

NathanDavis · Answer

irresistible is not the word...

although, some people have a thing for a few things that one can be, lol... but that's more of a thirst or craving

talking about actual relationships... it is not "one thing" but a few things here and there that made them just go for it and with it... and the same, I would never go to a person over just "one irresistible thing"

give me all you can... lmfao, make it worthy

MARSoc13 · Answer

Yours is my primary answer, too. Being truly and properly seen by another person is one of very few universally- and profoundly-transcendent and -validating experiences in life. I think the value of that capability increases proportional to a person's intelligence and emotional intelligence, as well - so the better a prospective partner, the more likely it is to be irresistible. Win-win.

- though I think it helps a lot that I'm genuinely curious/fascinated about what makes people tick both emotionally and sexually, and that I have an extremely tactile personality. All that bonus oxytocin from simple touch is literally addictive, apparently.

Cyfris · Answer

I think irresistable is a dangerous premiss. You can always do something that causes resistance. My strength to withstand any opposing force is something that has been called irresistable when pointed outward and unforgiveable when inward at a partner. The concept that there is one thing for which you would give up everything is a fairy tale. But the line can be thin and there are things so desirable that for which almost all else is water under the bridge.

queenofcardio · Answer

I never take life too seriously. I love planning adventures and travels.

I have interesting hobbies. I like cooking and I'm a decent baker.

I'm good at communicating my feelings and desires.

I can be very supportive and loyal.

My family is so fun and welcoming.

Anonymous · Answer

I know with Danielle it's her dreamy eyes her eyes are so captivating and alluring you could get lost in them. And her ass too she has one hell of a sexy ass. Her tits are also very 🔥🥵 hot too they're very sexy. But her best features are her inner beauty. She likes to remind people to think about 3 things they're grateful for and 3 things people love about themselves and she reminds people to think about something positive that happened to them today. Her newest motto is bad times and bad things can't last forever. Basically things have to improve at some point. Her lessons really try to improve the way people think for the better for the more positive instead of always focusing on the negative. She says people can get so wrapped up and focused on the negative things effecting their life that they tend to forget about the positive things going on in their life so she tries to remind people about that

Anonymous · Answer

We are raised not to praise ourselves. So I'd rather look at my shortages to improve.
What good of this question other than growing arrogance or vanity.

We don't go harsh on ourselves excessively as Japanese, but strictly avoid praising ourselves unless needed.
As in defending against an accusition or so.

We have duties to perform, and measure ourselves according to those.

DonaldDarko · Answer

No idea some girl from my old town has been obsessed for decades. I never had any interest in her at all. I've wondered what on earth could go on in her head to make her that way. It's been her issue for so long.

ElenaSeluna · Answer

That I am his sanctuary…peace in his chaos and warmth in his heart…

MissSunshine2 · Answer

Nothing makes me irresistible. What makes me appealing to some men, besides being attractive to some men, is my warmth and kindness.

Unycorn · Answer

I am such lovable (: The right man will see this.

MrChinaski · Answer

I think you would need to ask them. It seems it is different for different partners.

White_Widow · Answer

I accept people for who they are. So please be yourself.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I just like to enjoy life. If that is appealing then I might be. Otherwise, not a lot.

LC75LC71 · Answer

I will never bore you. Drama follows me whether I want it to or not.

Sunnyrjs · Answer

I wish I knew that. But I don't think I can say anything that strikes out to me.

Anonymous · Answer

My skills in psychology, brainwashing, manipulation, and grooming make me pretty irresistible, I think.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm probably not but to the woman who really loves me.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing really, I'm single and never been in a relationship.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Loyal and I know how to have fun.

exitseven · Answer

I have a sparkling personality

fish5505_87 · Answer

me being me!

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