What do you find desirable in a partner?

[Squiggles88]

Things like values, intimacy, careers, personality. Well anything really

[VinnyMac]

Attractiveness both inside and outside, Honest, Loyal, Kind, Loving, Affectionate, Respectful, Patient, Non-Judgemwntal, Someone you have good Chemistry with and are able to be Intamate with Oneanother, Values Family & Friends, Someone who you can feel comfortable with sharing your hopes and dreams, Shares the morals and beliefs that are most important to you, Is good with children, Likes animals, Someone you want to be with and could see yourself marrying and having a family with, Someone who gets you and that you feel happy with and enjoy being in oneanothers presence, Someone who feels for you how you feel about them, Someone who is one of your bestfriends, but most importantly has chosen to be with you

[Squiggles88]

I think when you meet the one you just know and everything fits together easier. Having a partner that's a best friend is the ultimate goal.

[VinnyMac]

Exactly, I absolutely aree on that 💯 .

[Truthatanycost]

(Not looking for a partner but if I was) Unvaccinated (no COVID shots), good personality, intelligence, generosity, kindness, spiritual / godly, health conscious, monogamous (with a thoughtful past devoid of hookup culture brainwashing). A love for life and a love for God, contentment, spiritual discernment and of course, attractive with long hair, short height, reasonably sized boobs and a butt that bounces a little.

[Squiggles88]

Hookup culture is quite rampant these days. It makes the dating pool quite small looking for someone with good values nowadays and people seem less monogamous it's a real shame

[Truthatanycost]

Yes, and I think it was promoted through media on purpose and was very carefully done for a specific reason. Make women think it was empowering, and men think it was macho.

I worked with a 50 year old woman that tries to warn younger women about it and they just laugh at her. I don't know any men trying to warn younger men though, they promote it!

[Squiggles88]

Yes they do. I have tried numerous times dating and these days seems futile. Men will say whatever to get a woman into bed and breakfasts plenty of women will go along with it if others don't so it's a vicious cycle. God knows what it will be like in the future

[Truthatanycost]

Tried dating? I walked away from everything to do with that decades ago for those reasons. But I always tell people the only way to find a decent person is through God. I haven't tried this route because I'm so used to being single, but I'd advise anyone else wanting to find a partner to do this.

In fact, I know of a person that did this, but they lacked faith so when they got everything they asked for, it also missed some very significant things because they were not specific enough.

[pixie215]

loyalty, communication, physical touch like hugs, someone who legitly cares about my well being

[VinnyMac]

Good answer. Women most often are able to give better advice on topics like this.

[Berethor]

Good looks and clean past.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenAreStrongWomenArePretty

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MadonnaWhoreComplex

[Cowboy6666]

I want a girl to be my closest and best friend, eager and caring, open minded, kind, not racist, not rude, always ready to give me BJ, educated, taller than me, pale blonde or white preferably, longer hairs.

[BarryLiverstone]

Someone who knows themselves and can be authentic. Honesty, intelligence, kindness. Who is open and willing to grow

[Squiggles88]

Great answer I agree with you! I feel like honesty is harder to find these days

[BarryLiverstone]

It seems rare indeed. Why do you think that is the case?

[Squiggles88]

I think these days with the internet people have bigger egos with social media, hookup culture makes it easier to have more options so people always feel like they might be missing something. That's just my personal opinion from what I've seen

[BarryLiverstone]

I see, you don’t just consider honesty as telling the truth; it expands to honor and loyalty as well

[bigpauly]

Good sense of humor, goal oriented

[Squiggles88]

Sense of humour is top of my list for sure and goal driven those are good ones. Someone you can laugh with and someone you can strive with

[bigpauly]

Yes exactly!