Is faking being a simp for a year to gain sexual experience a bad idea?

[Anonymous]

I am a virgin very late in life and after years of having no luck with women I found a woman willing to date me. The caveat is that she wants to have sex with other men for the first three years of our relationship whilst she teaches me to please her. She thinks I’d stay with that!

I am going to take her offer and play the role as her spineless simp, but leave her once I’m experienced enough to please her, and then my act will be over and her part in this will be done. I don’t wanna stay with her and be forced to remember she slept with other men at the beginning or our relationship. Probably after a year. Is this a good plan?

[Nikki1989]

There is no such thing as a "simp". Just because some internet troll put a tag on something and it stuck doesn't make it reality.

[Asker]

In my definition, a simp is a guy who will do anything for pussy. Even degrade himself and making himself a laughingstock.

[4ngelic]

not sure if this is a covert fetish post or genuine...

if it's genuine, don't do that to yourself. you're in your twenties, so there no need to be this desperate

[OneViewpoint]

It's a great plan. You're already fucked up. May as well finish the job and live your life that way.

[MrChinaski]

If I have absolutely no idea what a 'simp' is, does that make me a 'simp'?

[Asker]

It’s kind of a new term. A simp is a guy who will do anything for pussy even if he’s degrading himself for it.

[MrChinaski]

So, kind of like being married, then?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you avoid relationship disasters, not walk straight into them wearing a blindfold, babe 😏

This is a terrible plan for both of you. She’s using you for validation and backup while getting sex elsewhere, and you’re planning to use her for experience and then ghost. That’s mutual manipulation, not love, not respect.

You won’t magically feel confident after “training.” You’ll just add resentment, jealousy, and guilt to your virginity story. Way bigger red flag than being inexperienced.

Better path: protect your self‑respect, don’t agree to being her side character, and find someone who actually wants you, not a “student” or a simp.

[LazerBean]

Damaging yourself like that and engaging intoxic relationships is always a bad idea.

[Asker]

That’s why I’d be faking it. It’d be a false persona.

[LazerBean]

The damage and toxicity would not be fake though, it would still be almost as bad as if you weren't faking being a simp.

[Pohjolan]

Maybe just agree to have a friends with benefits arrangement for now?

[Anonymous]

So you plan on being a sub bdsm cuck sub that's pretty pathetic

[In_Trance]

Retarded